DEAR MAN
Three States of Mind
GIVE skills
SIX SENSES/RADICAL ACCEPTANCE
C-3 Movies
100

_____ the situation. Stick to the facts.

WHAT IS:

Describe

100

Keke, do you love me? Are you riding? Say you'll never ever leave from my side and....What state of mind would you say Drake was in while making this song

WHAT IS:
Emotional mind

100

It's not about the NAIL!!!

WHAT IS: 

Validation

100

How are touch and movement different?

WHAT IS: They are very similar! Movement involves motion of your larger muscle groups (yoga, stretching, running, dancing). Touch tends to include stillness or small muscle movements (taking a shower/bath, petting a dog/cat, getting a massage, wearing soft/comfortable clothes).

100

Which documentary talked about the importance of letting anger go and featured your favorite dread head rapper?

WHAT IS: 

The Therapist

200

Reward the person ahead of time by explaining the positive effects of getting what you want. Ex. I would be able to trust you more, and give you more privileges if you stuck to curfew agreement.

WHAT IS:

Reinforce

200

What are the 3 states of mind?

WHAT IS:

Reasonable mind

Wise Mind

Emotional Mind

200

Being nice and respectful, not attacking or using Threats, or casting judgements is referring to what letter in this skill.

WHAT IS:

 Be Gentle

200

How could the sense "Taste" being used inappropriately to cope?

WHAT IS: Overeating

200

A movie that focused on Empathy and other peoples point of views

WHAT IS: Crash

300

What does the third letter in DEAR MAN stand for and what does it mean?

WHAT IS:

Assert: Ask for what you want or say "no" clearly.

300

This state of mind is described as "cool" and is ruled by thinking, facts, and logic.

WHAT IS: 

Reasonable mind

300

Use an Easy manner is the last letter in the GIVE skills and refers to doing what?

WHAT IS: 

Smile

Use humor.

Use Nonthreatening body language

Leave your attitude at the door

300

What is radical acceptance?

WHAT IS: the skill of accepting things you cant change.

Radical = complete and total accepting in mind, heart, and body

Acceptance = seeing reality for what it is, even if you don't like it.

300

This movie took place in a prison and featured both offenders and non-offenders

WHAT IS: The Work

400

Keep your focus on what you want, avoiding distractions. Come back to your assertion over and over, like a broken record. Ignore attacks.

WHAT IS:

Mindful

400

"Bro, I'm hot right now, get out my face"!!! What state of mind is this?

WHAT IS: 

Emotional Mind

400
Define each letter of the GIVE skill

WHAT IS: 

be Gentle

act Interested

Validate

use an Easy Manner

400

What can rejecting reality do?

WHAT IS: Cause pain, keep you stuck in unhappiness, anger, shame, sadness, bitterness or other painful emotions.

400

This movie feature a main character who was recently released from prison and determined to do right by himself and his son while facing incredible odds

WHAT IS: 

Imperial dreams

500

Define DEAR MAN

WHAT IS:

Describe

Express

Assert

Reinforce

Mindful

Appear Confident

Negotiate

500

This mindset is a combination of two and is said to show wisdom and avoid impulsivity while making important decisions.

WHAT IS: 

Wise Mind

500

The GIVE skill helps you do what?

WHAT IS: 

Build and Maintain positive Relationships

500

What can get in the way of accepting reality?

WHAT IS: beliefs and emotions.

500

"The Mask You Live In" talks about what it means to be a man in today's society and the consequences of that. How does this apply to you?

WHAT IS: 

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