Warning Signs
Types of Abuse
Cycle of Abuse
100

Partner's behavior includes obsessively monitoring where other partner is, who they are talking to, who they can see, and other activities 

What is controlling/surveillance?

100

Hitting, punching, kicking, hurting another partner

What is physical abuse?

100

The first "step" to the cycle of abuse

What is tensions build?
200

Partner humiliates and attempts to destroy the other's character in front of others

What is character assassination?

200

Name calling, gaslighting, insults, back-handed compliments

What is emotional abuse?

200

The second "step" to the cycle of abuse

What is the incident?

300

Partner prevents the other from seeing their friends, family, other people in their lives to only spend time with them

What is isolation?

300

Partner has total control of bank accounts, how much the other can spend, provides strict allowance

What is financial abuse?

300

The third "step" to the cycle of abuse

What is reconciliation?
400

partner threatens to share pictures of partner to their workplace, family, friends without their consent to get what they want

What is blackmail

400

Partner sexually assaults, torments, abuses their partner without their consent 

What is sexual abuse?

400

The fourth "step" to the cycle of abuse

What is the calm period?

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