Your friend is upset because she can't buy the shirt she wanted while you're both at the star. She slouches her shoulders, bows her head and continues acting this way for the rest of the shopping trip. Which form of communication is this?
A- Passive
B- Assertive
C- Aggressive
A- Passive
Your friend is not clearly communicating her feelings or needs, and she isn't thinking about how her pouting could affect you for the rest of the shopping trip. She is using body language to send hints, which is passive communication.
What did the pig say on a hot summer day?
I'm bacon
Sarah heard a joke today and she thinks it's the best. Which option is appropriate?
A- She tells the joke one time
B- She repeats the joke several times throughout the day
A-
Repeating something over and over again can not only be frustrating for others, it is also disruptive behavior. Tell the joke one time and move on to other topics of conversation
Which state's capital is Salt Lake City?
Utah
Number of quarters that equal a dollar?
4
Treating our caregivers poorly when they are trying to help us.
Good or bad choice?
Bad choice. Our caregivers are always trying to do what is best for us, and we should treat them with the same respect they give us. Always remember to use kind words!
True or false:
Real friends don't have conflict
False
Conflict can happen in any relationship, even friendships. A disagreement does not mean the friendship has to end. These situations would require assertive communication and empathy. Talking it out respectfully, while also trying to understand why your friend feels the way they do is a quality of a real friendship.
Why do fish swim in salt water?
Because pepper would make them sneeze
Jane had some exciting news to tell her friend and decided to call her. Her friend didn't answer the phone. Which is appropriate?
A- Calling over and over again until her friend answers
B- Leave a voicemail or send a text and wait for her friend to call back
B- Leave a voicemail or send a text and wait for her friend to call back
Unless you are calling someone because there is a life threatening, or dangerous emergency, you should only call one time and wait for the person to call you back.
Which state is known as the Aloha State?
Hawaii
Number of Nickels that equal a quarter?
5
Good or bad choice? Choosing a salad for lunch instead of a Hamburger and french fries
Good choice. Choosing healthier food choices will help our body with producing energy. Eating fast food is ok in moderation.
You are working on a drawing when your friend comes up to speak to you. You're very focused and asked your friend if they would let you finish the drawing before having the conversation. Your friend continues speaking to you. How can you communicate your feelings to your friend using an 'I statement'?
"When you continue to talk after I asked you to wait, I feel frustrated"
Where do sheep go on vacation?
the Baa-hamas
Manny is excited because today his group is going out to lunch. He has a $20 budget. Which is appropriate?
A- Telling everyone he sees that he has $20 in his wallet
B- Not telling anyone that he has $20 besides his staff or coach
B-
How much money you have is personal information. You shouldn't tell anyone how much money you have besides your staff at home, or day program. Telling someone how much money you have could put you at risk for being robbed.
This is the flag of which country?
Mexico
Number of Nickels that equal a quarter?
5
Good or bad choice? Hitting walls and tables, throwing items, screaming and yelling because I don't want to do something.
Bad choice. We all get upset, but should act like an adult and use our coping skills or take a break when upset.
True or false:
Compromise is an important part of any relationship because it helps both people feel equally important
True!
We don't always have to have our way. In any relationship, compromise is an important practice.
What do you get when you combine an elephant with a fish?
Swimming trunks
Two coaches are having a conversation. Henry wants to tell them about the new book he is reading. Which is appropriate?
A- Approach the coaches, stand where they can see him and stare at them while listening to their conversation.
B- Stay in his seat and wait for the one of the coaches to approach him before telling someone about his book
B- Stay in his seat and wait for the one of the coaches to approach him before telling someone about his book
Staring at someone, listening to other people's conversations, and interrupting are all inappropriate boundaries. When you are not part of a conversation, but have something to say, you should wait until those involved in the conversation part ways. This is usually the best sign that a conversation is over and those people are ready to hear what you have to say.
This is the state animal of which state?
Alaska
Often named after a farm animal, it is a container for saving money in. It has a slit in the top through which coins are dropped.
Piggy Bank
Good or bad choice? Asking for help when a project becomes overwhelming.
Good choice. Sometimes we can get overwhelmed with a craft activity or project. Asking someone for help is ok!
Your friends clothes look dirty today. You look your friend over and say, "Gross! Your clothes look disgusting! They smell too! You look homeless! Do you ever do your laundry?!" Which form of communication is this?
A- Passive
B- Assertive
C- Aggressive
C- Aggressive
Some thoughts should be kept to ourselves. The things being said are very hurtful, and you are saying them without caring about how they would make your friend feel.
Why do fish like to eat worms?
Because they get hooked on them
Sarah's group is in the car driving to their next location. Which is appropriate?
A- Every time the car passes a Bank of America Sarah yells, "That's my bank! I have money there!"
B- Staying quiet and not announcing that she banks there
B-
Where we bank is personal information that should never be shared.
The poppy is the state flower for which state?
California
When you have finished paying for items from a store, you wait for this so you have proof of what you bought
You should always wait for your receipt
Good or bad choice? Calling someone a mean name because they've upset you
Bad choice. We should treat others with respect even when we are upset with them.
What does it mean to be trustworthy?
To be honest and reliable. Say what you do, and do what you say.
Why don't oysters share their pearls?
Because they're shellfish!
Frank is upset because it is time to start zoom and he doesn't want to put his puzzle away. Which is appropriate?
A- Put his puzzle to the side so that he can finish it after zoom class and participate in the activity
B- Shove his puzzle off the table and pout about the fact that he has to put it away to do the zoom activity.
A- Put his puzzle to the side so that he can finish it after zoom class and participate in the activity
Part of good leadership qualities is participating in all activities and setting a positive example. Fun activities like puzzles, reading and drawing can be done before and after zoom class. Making sure we have a positive attitude and are prepared to participate in all activities are qualities of a great leader.
Which US state is known as the Beaver State?
Oregon
A small piece of paper that allows one to get a service or product for free or at a lower price. They are often found in the Sunday Paper or mail to your house
Coupon
Good or bad choice? Raising your hand and waiting to be called on when on zoom with peers and staff.
Good choice. Everyone deserves a chance to speak, and it is respectful to raise your hand and wait to be called on, rather than interrupting.
What is assertive communication?
To communicate our feelings and needs while respecting the feelings and needs of others.
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https://youtu.be/AJ-e5Q4vhsk
What's black and white, and red all over?
A zebra with a sunburn!
Tim is having a bad day and doesn't want to participate. Which is appropriate?
A- Have a bad attitude with peers and staff while refusing to participate in any of the activities.
B- Take deep breaths and change his attitude by reminding himself that he can turn his day around any time he wants
B- Take deep breaths and change his attitude by reminding himself that he can turn his day around any time he wants
Without pulling your folders out, what state are we currently studying?
Colorado
How much is 3 quarters, 1 dime and 1 nickel?
90 cents
Good or bad choice? Crossing the street without looking both ways because the walk signal says it's ok.
Bad choice. Even if the walk signal says it's ok to cross the street, you should still look both ways to make sure there are no cars moving towards you.