Lifelines
Redo Hurtful Moments
What If …
Keys to Communication
More than Just Words
100
What is an example of awareness?
Some Examples: Knowing safety rules, looking before acting, recognizing you impact those around you
100
What could you say if you accidentally spilled juice on your friend's shirt?
Example: I am sorry, I should have been more careful. Here is a napkin.
100
If someone doesn’t want to listen to your apology right away, what should you give them to calm down?
time
100
The 2nd communication key is the opposite of a yelling voice, what is it?
Talking Voice
100
You bump into someone on accident but they get really mad. What should you do?
apologize, say sorry, stay calm
200
What is gratitude?
To be thankful
200
What could you say if you didn't invite someone to play, and they look sad because of it?
Example: I'm sorry you felt left out. You can always come and join us.
200
If after apologizing, if the other person is still upset, what should you do instead of arguing?
be patient
200
When you say someone's name, you need to wait for this so that you know they heard you.
Eye contact
200
Your teacher asks you to take a 5-minute break in the hallway because you won't stop talking. What should you do?
Take the 5 minutes in the hallway and think about how you can change your actions so you can be with the class. Recognize that your actions were stopping others from learning.
300
What is integrity
To do the right thing even when no one is looking
300
What could you say if you made a joke that hurt your friend's feelings?
I’m sorry, I didn't mean for that joke to be hurtful.
300
If someone doesn’t accept your apology, it's important to show them this through your actions.
changing your behavior
300
Voice tone is important, but_____ communicates 60% of the message. That makes Key 3- using a talking face and body so important. What communicates 60% of the message?
body language
300
How does it feel when someone uses the word sorry but keeps doing the hurtful thing?
Hurtful, mean, untrustworthy, confusing, frustrating, Don't want to accept apology in the future.
400
What is generosity?
To be giving and willing to share without expecting anything back
400
What could you say if you accidentally stepped on someone's foot during a game?
I’m sorry for stepping on your foot
400
What if someone comes to you and passes a message about someone else? What do you do?
Ignore it- it sounds like a rumor
Tell the person, it sounds like you are repeating a rumor.
Talk with a trusted adult
Stay calm- responding with anger can make things worse.
400
What Kimochi character is on the picture for Key 5- Redo Hurtful Moments?
400
What do you do when you apologize and change your actions, but the person holds a grudge about the hurtful moment?
give space, talk with a safe adult, give them time
500
What is initiative?
To do what needs to be done without being told
500
What could you say if you bump into someone?
Sorry for bumping into you.
500
If someone isn’t ready to accept your apology, you can let them know you still care by doing this.
being kind
500
When we practiced using helping words, we practiced using this kind of statement when sharing our feelings. What was it?
I statement or I feel statement
500
The Keys to Communication and Lifelines are just words unless you show them with your actions. How can using the Keys to Communication and Lifelines help you in your life?
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