Gratitude in action
TRUE OR FALSE
You can only feel grateful on holidays
FALSE
Gratitude can happen every day, not just on Thanksgiving!
Watch the scene and guess the movie:
Aladdin
Which of these is an example of positive communication?
A) Interrupting to prove your point
B) Listening first, then responding calmly
C) Yelling so you'll be heard
B) Listening first, then responding calmly
Listening first show self-control and respect. Communication isn't about who talks louder. It's about who understands better.
TRUE OR FALSE
A good attitude means pretending to be happy all the time.
FALSE
A positive attitude isn't fake. It's about choosing calm, hope, or effort even when life's messy!
What do you call a pumpkin that works at the beach?
A life gourd!
What happens when you practice gratitude often?
A) You feel happier
B) You feel angrier
C) You get tired
A) You feel happier
Gratitude boosts your mood and helps you see the good
Watch the scene and guess the movie:
Mulan
You're upset but want to talk calmly. What's the best first step?
Take a deep breath, then use "I feel" statements.
Starting with "I feel..." keeps focus on your emotions instead of blaming the other person ("You always...") That invites conversation instead of conflict!
TRUE OR FALSE
Your attitude can affect the people around you.
TRUE
Energy spreads. A smile or complaint can shift an entire room's mood!
What happened when the turkey got into a fight?
He got the stuffing knocked out of him!
TRUE OR FALSE
You can be grateful for people even if they sometimes annoy you.
True
You can appreciate good parts even when things aren't perfect!
Watch the scene and guess the movie:
PHONE A FRIEND? THEY GET 50 BONUS POINTS IF THEY GET IT RIGHT
A bug's life
What is the best way to give feedback?
A) "You never do anything right."
B) "You did a great job, but you could work on being on time."
C) "Whatever, it's fine."
B) "You did a great job, but you could work on being on time."
Balance is key! Start with something positive, then add the helpful feedback. It keeps the other person open instead of defensive.
Which phrase shows a growth attitude?
A) "I messed up. I'll learn from it."
B) "I messed up. I quit!"
C) "It's not my fault!"
A) "I messed up. I'll learn from it."
Growth attitude means treating mistakes as lessons instead of failures!
Why didn't the scarecrow eat dinner?
Because he was already stuffed!
You're upset because you were packed a small lunch today. What could you still be thankful for?
Having food to eat!
Gratitude finds the positive in what's already there!
Watch the scene and guess the movie:
PHONE A FRIEND? THEY GET 50 BONUS POINTS IF THEY GET IT RIGHT
Robing Hood
Which sentence shows responsibility for your feelings?
A) "I feel frustrated when that happens."
B) "You made me mad."
C) "You always do this!"
A) "I feel frustrated when that happens."
"I feel" statements take ownership of emotions and invite problem-solving. "You" statements usually cause the other person to get defensive.
What happens when you focus on what's going wrong all the time?
A) You attract good energy
B) You solve problems faster
C) You feel more stressed
C) You feel more stressed
Attention feeds emotion. Focusing on negatives only strengthens them!
What did the apple tree say to the hungry caterpillar?
"Leaf me alone!"
What's a simple daily gratitude habit?
A) Complaining about what's missing
B) Naming three good things each day
C) Waiting for something big to happen
B) Naming three good things each day
Daily gratitude rewires your brain to notice the good!
Watch the scene and guess the movie:
PHONE A FRIEND? THEY GET 50 BONUS POINTS IF THEY GET IT RIGHT
Corpse Bride
You notice that you've been short-tempered all week. A staff member asks if something's wrong. What's the best way to respond?
Be honest: "I've been anxious lately, but I'm trying to work on it."
Owning your mood helps others understand and support you. Communication starts with self-awareness!
A staff member reminds you of a rule you already know. What's a good attitude response?
Take a breath and say, "Thanks for the reminder."
Respectful responses prevent small annoyances from becoming big conflicts!
What did the queasy pumpkin say?
"I don't feel so gourd!"
The most powerful way to practice gratitude is:
A) Thinking it quietly once
B) Living it every day through your actions
C) Waiting for someone else to go first
B) Living it every day through your actions
Gratitude is a daily practice, not a one-time feeling!
Watch the scene and guess the movie:
PHONE A FRIEND? THEY GET 50 BONUS POINTS IF THEY GET IT RIGHT
Treasure Planet
What's an example of empathetic communication?
A) "That's your problem."
B) "You're overreacting."
C) "I get why you'd feel that way."
C) "I get why you'd feel that way."
Empathy validates someone's emotions without fixing or judging them. It builds trust and helps both sides stay connected.
You're frustrated because something feels unfair. What can you control right now?
Your response. Use calm words or take a break.
Focusing on what you can control restores stability and confidence.
Why did the cranberries blush?
Because they saw the turkey dressing
You're feeling frustrated during chores. What could a gratitude though sound like?
"I'm glad I have a home to take care of."
Gratitude flips "have to" inti "get to."
Watch the scene and guess the movie:
PHONE A FRIEND? THEY GET 50 BONUS POINTS IF THEY GET IT RIGHT
The Adventures of TinTin
Why is tone of voice important?
A) People can tell what you mean even if you're rude.
B) Tone changes how your message is received.
C) It doesn't matter as long as your words are right.
B) Tone changes how your message is received.
Tone adds emotional meaning. The same words ("I'm fine.") can sound caring, sarcastic, or angry depending on the tone you use.
75 bonus points if you can say "I'm fine." in a caring, sarcastic and angry tone.
What's a helpful thought when facing a hard task?
A) "This is too hard for me."
B) "I'll do one step at a time."
C) "I give up!"
B) "I'll do one step at a time."
Breaking tasks into steps prevents overwhelm and builds momentum!
What do you call a fat pumpkin?
A PLUMP-kin!