Mean Moment, Bullying or Conflict
The hurtful behavior is on purpose, and it was one sided but it is not repeated.
Mean Moment
Miranda and Kelsey sit next to each other in class. During art, Miranda takes Kelsey’s paint brush without asking. Kelsey calls Miranda a name and they get into an argument. The next day, Miranda is walking by and Kelsey tries to trip her. Miranda notices and calls Kelsey a name.
CONFLICT
Someone is standing too close to you in line and it is bothering you. What could you do?
Be assertive
Be specific
The hurtful behavior is on purpose, it is happening more than once but it is not one sided.
Conflict
Out at recess, Greg told Linda she is bad at GaGa ball so she can't play with them.
Mean Moment
If you stood up for yourself but the other person continues to do what you have asked them to stop, what should you do?
Ask for help
The hurtful behavior is on purpose, it is happening repeatedly, it is one sided and it is creating an unsafe environment
Bullying
Every morning on the bus, a 4th grade student keeps pushing a 1st grade student. The 4th grade student continues to hit the 1st grade student when the bus driver is not looking. The 1st grade student does not feel safe while riding the bus
BULLYING
Purposeful
Imbalance of Power
Repetitive
If someone is being mean or doing something that is hurting your feelings, how should you stand up for yourself or another person?
Be assertive!
Be specific!
Be an ally!