Problem Size
What size problem is an emergency situation and who could you ask for help in an emergency?
Big problem; police, firefighter, adult, etc.
Share three things you have in common with one of your friends
Shares three things in common with a friend
What is "think vs. say"?
Example: Think vs. say is determining when you should think something instead of saying it during a conversation or when you should say something instead of thinking it (i.e. Thinking something that is mean/Saying something to advocate for yourself, etc.)
Why should you use coping strategies?
Example: To handle stress more effectively, to avoid doing or saying something hurtful, to feel better when you are upset/angry/annoyed/frustrated
How can you start a conversation with someone?
Example: Ask questions or pick a topic to talk about
Give an example of a big problem, medium problem, and small problem
Gives example for each
What is one way you can maintain a relationship?
Example: Spending quality time together, asking what they are interested in, helping each other out, etc.
Give an example of a "say" scenario/a time when you should say your response or comment instead of thinking it. Why should you say it instead of think it?
Gives an example of a say instead of think and why it should be said (example: requesting help)
What coping strategies have you tried that work? Which coping strategies have you tried that don't work?
Gives an example of each
Have a conversation about Anime for at least three exchanges
Has conversation about Anime for three exchanges
Give an example of when a friend has had a problem and how you helped them
Define relationship
Example: A relationship could be the way in which two or more people/groups interact and behave towards each other
Give an example of a "think" scenario/a time when you should think your response or comment instead of saying it. Why should you think it instead of say it?
Gives an example and why it should be a think instead of say
Give three examples of coping strategies you can use
Gives three examples
Have a conversation about staff's choice for a topic for at least four exchanges
Has conversation about staff pick for topic for at least four exchanges
Who should you not ask for help with a problem? Who is someone you can ask for help with a problem?
Answers who can and cannot be asked for help appropriately
What's an example of inappropriate behavior in a relationship?
Example: Not respecting each other's space or property, name calling or negative language towards each other, not setting positive boundaries
Why is it important to know the difference between what we should "think" versus what we should "say"?
Example: Filtering our responses in social situations can help us avoid hurting other people's feelings, can help avoid conflict with others, and can improve our relationships with others
When should you practice coping strategies and who could you practice coping strategies with?
You can practice coping strategies anytime and anywhere. Coping strategies can be done with friends, people you trust, parents, or by yourself
What are three things you shouldn't do in a conversation? What are three things you should do in a conversation?
Example: Shouldn't do; interrupt, ignore the other person, text while they are talking. Should do; make eye contact, ask questions, listen to what they are saying
Role play a problem scenario with staff, identify the size of the problem, and give the correct response to that problem scenario
Example: You got into a fight with your mom about wanting to have a friend over; medium sized problem; make a compromise-maybe your friend can come over on the weekend/part of the afternoon instead of all day
What are five things you could do to show you are interested in a friendship/relationship?
Example: Start a conversation, ask questions about the other person, try something new together, take time to listen to them, spend time with them/make plans together
Role play a think vs. say scenario and discuss why it is a think vs. say or say vs. think
Role plays scenario and discusses why it is a think vs. say or say vs. think
Try a new coping strategy you haven't tried before
Tries a new coping strategy
How could you resolve a conflict with a conversation? Role play a conflict scenario and how to resolve it with conversation.
Example: You could talk about the problem and discuss a compromise. Gives appropriate response when role playing conflict scenario