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"oh well, thats the way it goes" is an example of which defensive communication climate
Nuetrality (Lacking concern)
Have-Self
personality. authenticity
Do- Relationship
Created by communication
"That is really tough. I know how hard you work on to get good grades" is an example of which Supportive communication
Empathy (Accepting anothers feelings and putting yourself in their place)
A relational pattern in which the actions and reactions of the individuals in the relationship are consistent with their goals and needs, the relationship progresses on a positive tone with continual increases in the level of harmony and satisfaction.
Progressive Spiral
"No, I just told you. That's not the right way to do it" is an example of which defensive climate communication
Superiority (More worthy or deserving)
Have- Relationship
The relationship shapes or constrains communication between members of the relationship
Do - Organizational Communication
The organizational structure is constructed through communication
"If you want, I can show you the way that worked for me" is an example of which supportive communication climate
Equality (Treat others as just as worthy)
The final stage of the coming together half of the relational model. This stage puts the relationship on public display and suggests that the relationship is exclusive. This stage often involves marriage or another type of public contract.
Bonding
"Your way will never work" is an example of which Defensive communication climate
Certainty (Treat self as always right)
Have - Organizational Communication
Communication in the organization is shaped by organizational structure
What purpose do pet names and personal idioms (private languages) and serve?
Make person feel special, indicate that the couple is an "exclusive" unit with private understandings
"I haven't heard that before. Can you explain it to me?" is an example of which Supportive communication climate
Provisionalism (Maybe the other person is right)
This is the stage of the relationship where you spend increasing amounts of time together and integrate aspects of your life. You become more vulnerable and feel free to express to one another. This is the stage where people begin to say I love you and your relationship is recognized by people outside of the relationship as real.
"it hurt my feelings when you didn't like my sweater" is an example of which Supportive communication climate?
Description (Describe rather than judge, keep the focus on the speaker)
Do - Culture
We construct culture via communication
"What should we do first?" is an example of which Supportive communication climate?
Problem Orientation (Find a solution that works best for all)
Where one person (the dependent party) always agrees and follows the other person
Dependencies
The second stage of a relationship, where individuals begin to engage in self-disclosure to learn more about each other. The individuals use this stage to explore common ground and get a feel for the relationship as well as one another.
Experimenting
Have- Culture
Controls & "Shapes" us
Do- Self
Constructed through communication
"go ahead and act" is an example of which Supportive Communication climate
Spontaneity (Saying what you mean in and not shaping events)
Where one person always disagrees and challenges the other person
Counter-dependencies
During this stage, differences between the relationship partners are emphasized and what was thought to be similarities begins to disintegrate.
Differntiating