Conflict
Name 3 qualities that make a bad friend
Examples:
Jealous, dishonest, mean, selfish, bad listener, gossips etc.
what does it mean to have a two-way conversation?
being both the listener and the talker!
Name one way you have connected with a friend during the past year while stuck at home
Judges what do you think about that answer?
words of affirmation is 1 of the 5 love languages. Give a compliment to everyone on your team.
Awww how nice!
True or False, do friends have to like all the same things?
Explain your answer
False!
We are all unique individuals! Common interests often bond us but we don't have to have the same opinion on everything to be friends
Your friend hurt your feelings when they excluded you from a game. What would you do?
Check your answer with the judges
Name five good places to meet new friends
Possible answers: school, Prospect, work, Special O, clubs/activities, church, bars
Name three ways you can communicate with your friends during Covid?
zoom, call, text, email etc
Your mom's love language is Acts of Service. How could you show her you care about her through an act of service?
-offer to do a chore for them
-help them out on a project
Name 3 ways that having a good friend makes you feel?
Examples: Loved, happy, appreciated etc.
A friend is spreading gossip about you and it is bothering you? what might you do about it?
- explain to them how it makes you feel and to please stop
- tell someone you trust for help
what are 3 possible conversation starters you could use when you meet a new person?
Nailed it!
why is it especially important for us to check in on our friends during Covid?
people are feeling especially lonely and stressed during this time and need to be reminded that people care
Your friend's love language is gift giving. What's a gift you can get a friend that costs no money?
- handmade gifts
-baking
-card/letter
What is one way you would like to be a better friend?
Examples:
Spend more time with my friends, give them more compliments, call them more often etc.
Your friend Sam doesn't want you to hangout with any of your other friends. Sam wants all your time to be spent with them but you want to see your other friends. What should you do?
- talk to Sam about how you feel
-explain to Sam how it is okay to have more than 1 friend
-invite all your friends to hangout together
How can I get to know and make a new client feel welcome at Prospect during in-person services?
Many possible answers, judges what do you think?
Your friend is feeling really sad and lonely being stuck at home, what can you do to cheer them up?
Examples include phone call, write a card, socially distanced hangout etc
Your best friend's love language is quality time. How can you show them that you care through quality time?
-one on one time
-good conversation
-activities you can do together
True or False: facilitators are your friends?
explain your answer!
False: facilitators care about you but we are staff not friends. It is a professional relationship.
You and your friend are trying to make plans to hang out. They want to go to the movies and you want to mini putt. What would you do to resolve this disagreement?
check answer with the Judges!
How can I get to know and make a new client feel welcome at Prospect over ZOOM?
Judges what do you think?
There is someone in program who I would like to get to know more but I don't know how since we can't see each other in person? What should I do?
Lots of possible answers! Judges?
Can you name all 5 love languages?
Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch
Name 3 things that make YOU a good friend
Agreed!