Use your words
Small or Big?
It's your choice!
Give an example
100
True or False: If you chose to "talk it out", you should start with how you feel.
True
100
What does Kelso tell you to do if you come across a big problem?
Talk to an adult you trust.
100
Which one of Kelso’s choices would you use if someone kept changing the rules on your soccer team?
Tell them to please stop, talk it out, or go to another game.
100
Define “small problem”
A problem that is not dangerous or scary that you are smart enough to solve on your own.
200
What would you tell someone if you wanted to "share and take turns" using the crayons?
"May I please use the blue crayon when you are finished?"
200
What should you do you see another kid stealing at someone’s birthday party? (Type of problem)
BIG problem. Talk to an adult you trust.
200
Which Kelso’s choice could you use if someone kept trying to copy off your work?
Tell them to please stop.
200
What is a BIG problem?
Any problem that is scary or dangerous.
300
How would you "talk it out" if someone hurt your feelings after calling you a name?
“I feel angry when you call me a baby because that's not my name and I want you to please stop.”
300
What should you do if you see someone cheating at a game? (type of problem)
Small problem. Tell them to please stop, talk it out, walk away, or go to another game.
300
ROLE PLAY!
Pick a partner. Role play: a brother and a sister want to watch different TV shows. They get into an argument about which one to watch.
300
Which Kelso’s choice could you use if someone kept trying to copy off your work?
Tell them to "please stop."
400
ROLE PLAY!
Pick a partner. Role play: someone shoves you to be first in line.
400
What would you do if you saw a stranger asking a neighborhood child to come with them to their car?
BIG problem. Tell an adult you trust: parents, friend’s parents, neighbor, police officer.
400
If someone kept interrupting you while you were talking, which one of Kelso’s choices would you use?
Tell them to please stop, Talk it out, walk away, or wait and cool off.
400
Give an example of when you would tell someone to please stop.
Example: someone is trying to annoy you by tapping on your desk while you work.
500
What would you say to someone who said you can’t be on the team because you can’t kick the ball far?
“I feel sad when you don’t let me play on the team because I want to play, too. Please give me a chance.”
500
Who are two trusted adults who could help you with a big problem outside of school?
Parents, friend’s parents, neighbor, police officer, relative.
500
Which one of Kelso’s choices would you use if your best friend was ignoring you?
Talk it out.
500
What are two examples of feelings that can come with BIG problems?
Fear, hurt, nervous, worried, scared.
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