Use your words
Minor and Major?
It's your choice!
Give an example
100

How do you “Talk it Out” that tells someone how you feel?

I feel ________, when you _______________, could you please ________________. 

Use "I- Message" 

100
What does Kelso tell you to do if you come across a big problem?
Talk to an adult you trust.
100
Which one of Kelso’s choices would you use if someone kept changing the rules on your soccer team?
Tell them to please stop, talk it out, or go to another game.
100
Define “small problem”
A problem that is not dangerous or scary that you are smart enough to solve on your own.
200

What could you do if you think you heard someone else talking about you to someone else? 

Use Kelso's Choice:  "TALK IT OUT"

Example: Ask that person to talk privately and ask them respectfully if are talking about you and if so, use "I feel upset, when you talk about me to other people, can you please talk with me if you have a problem with something to talk it out"

200

What should you do if you see someone getting mad and pushing others.  

BIG problem. Talk to an adult you trust.

200
Which Kelso’s choice could you use if someone kept trying to copy off your work?
Tell them to please stop.
200
What is a BIG problem?
Any problem that is scary or dangerous.
300

How do you tell someone to stop calling your parent a mean name? 

Use Kelso's Choice: Tell them to stop

Can you please stop calling my parent a mean name, I don't like that.  

300
What should you do if you see someone cheating at a game? (type of problem)
Small problem. Tell them to please stop, talk it out, walk away, or go to another game.
300
ROLE PLAY!
Pick a partner. Role play: a brother and a sister want to watch different TV shows. They get into an argument about which one to watch.
300
Which Kelso’s choice could you use if someone kept trying to copy off your work?
Tell them to "please stop."
400

ROLE PLAY!

Pick a partner. Role play: someone shoves you to be first in line.

400

What would you do if you saw a student bring a weapon to school such as a knife or lighter?

BIG problem. Tell an adult at school immediately! 

400
If someone kept interrupting you while you were talking, which one of Kelso’s choices would you use?
Tell them to please stop, Talk it out, walk away, or wait and cool off.
400
Give an example of when you would tell someone to please stop.
Example: someone is trying to annoy you by tapping on your desk while you work.
500

Use your words to someone who said you can’t be on the team because you are too rough and don't follow the rules when playing soccer.  

Example: “I feel sad when you don’t let me play I will work on being respectful and follow the rules. Please give me a chance.”

500
Who are two trusted adults who could help you with a big problem outside of school?
Parents, friend’s parents, neighbor, police officer, relative.
500
Which one of Kelso’s choices would you use if your best friend was ignoring you?
Talk it out.
500
What are two examples of feelings that can come with BIG problems?
Fear, hurt, nervous, worried, scared.
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