Terminology
Wax
Fire
Rope
Negotiations
100

A negotiated cool down period after a scene

Aftercare

100

This type of burn can be treated with cold water.

First Degree

100

Fluffy

Absorbent

Cotton ball

100

Jute, Nylon, Hemp

Types of rope

100

A word, phrase, or sign that both parties agree signals the end of their scene

Safeword

200

The receiver in a power dynamic

bottom

200

Our Resident Wax Daddy

Whoever does wax

200

Pulse, Artery, Deep vein thrombosis, Ulcer

Areas to avoid

200

Our resident Rope Goddess

Whoever does rope

200

A negotiable limit

Soft Limit

300

When a line, limit, or previously discussed negotiation is violated

Consent Violation

300

Tea, Votive,Beeswax


Types of candles to avoid

300

Clean, Prep, Soak, Light, Place, Apply, Monitor

Fire Cupping Process

300

Washing/Boiling, Stretching, Singeing, Polishing, Waxing/Oiling, Baking

Steps to condition rope

300

The physical object used in and around a scene

Toy

400

A wise and trusted teacher/advisor

MENTOR

400

A safe distance to pour from

36 in/3 ft

400

Is the recommended time to leave cups on skin

20 minutes

400

A traditional form of artistic rope bondage that originated in Japan

Shibari

400

A place used for BDSM activities, public or private and furnished with equipment

Dungeon

500

The consensual transfer of power by the submissive to the Dominant

Total Power Exchange (TPE)

500

Seek immediate medical attention

Third degree burn

500

Recommended alcohol percentage

70%

500

Loss of feeling in extremity, tingling, limited mobility

Nerve damage

500

NO ANSWER, NO RETURN TEXT, Friend and police are on the way

Safe call

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