Healthy
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Language
You make decisions together and hold each other to the same standards
Equal
One or both partners is not considerate of the other's feelings and/or personal boundaries
Disrespectful
Each partner's wishes and feelings have value
Respect Each Other
Both partners are communicating, being respectful, trusting each other, honest, equal, and enjoying personal time
Healthy Relationship
Forces the other partner to do things they don't want to do.
Pressures
You both can have fun spending time apart, alone or with others. You respect each other's needs.
Enjoying Personal time
One partner doesn't believe what the other says, or feels entitled to invade their privacy
Not trusting
In an unhealthy relationship, if something is bothering them, it's best to talk about it instead of hold it in
Speak Up
When one or both partners is disrespectful, blames the other, controls and isolates their partner, pressures and is physical in the relationship.
Abuse
Blames
You talk openly about problems, listen to each other and respect each other.
Communicating
One partner feels their desires and choices are more important
Trying to take control
Disagreements are a natural part of a healthy relationships, but it is important that they find a way to negotiate and come together if they disagree on something.
Compromise
If their is no communication, disrespect, dishonesty, not trusting one another, and only spending time with your partner.
Unhealthy Relationship
Disregards the feelings, thoughts, decisions, opinions or physical safety of the other.
Disrespects
You make decisions together and hold each other to the same standards
Equal
When problems arise, you fight or you don't discuss them at all
Not communicating
Offer reassurances and encouragement to each other in a relationship
Be supportive
Their should not be any restrictions on someone's ability to hang with friends, participate in activities, not able to have passwords on phones, emails, social media, etc.
Healthy Boundaries
Injures the other partner by hitting, slapping, choking, pushing or shoving.
Physically hurts
You value each other as you are. You value each other's emotional, digital and sexual boundaries.
Respectful
One or both partners tell lies
Dishonest
Just because someone is in a relationship doesn't mean they have to share everything and constantly be together
Respect each other's privacy
Healthy relationships require space and security.
Creating Boundaries
Controls