Type of boundaries
Define physical boundaries.
related to your body and personal space.
What is a physical boundary that you have.
examples; someone touching your hair, giving you a hug without asking, sitting to close to you.
your sister keeps burrowing your cloths without asking and forgetting to return them what boundaries is she crossing and how can you set better boundaries with her.
Material Boundaries.
open ended question
Your friend told someone your secrets.
Don't tell your friend any of your secrets.
•Your sibling keeps wearing your cloths.
Material boundary.
Define Intellectual/mental boundaries:
What kind of physical boundaries does your teacher have with you?
Open ended question.
Your best friends laughs at you when you give an idea in class what boundary is she crossing and how would you set a boundary with her.
Intellectual/mental
Open ended questions.
Your friend aggressively talks to you during a conversation about your feelings being hurt.
Sorry I can't talk to you when you talk to me like that I'm going to end this conversation.
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•A classmate keeps laughing when you share your ideas
emotional boundary
Define Complementing a friend when they do something good
Emotional boundaries.
What would be an example of someone who has bad physical boundaries and how can it become a problem.
open ended question.
What sort of boundaries might you see in a healthy relationship.
Open ended questions.
your friends keep making inappropriate comments about someone you care about.
I'm sorry I don't want to be a part of this conversation.
•You told your friend about an insecurity you have, and they shared it with the class.
Emotional
Define Emotional Boundary.
A classmate continues to invade your physical space causing you to feel uncomfortable practice expressing your boundaries with them.
open ended questions
name two people in your life and identify two boundaries you have with them that are the same and two that are different.
Open ended questions.
Your friend burrowed your shirt and never returned it.
Unfortunately, I won't be able to lend you anything else because you did not return the last thing I lent you.
Your sister asked to barrow your hoody and when she returned it there was a big stain on it.
Material
Why might it be hard to practice good boundaries.
Open ended questions
what will most likely happen if you tell someone "Move before I hit you!!!" because they are in your personal space.
It will most likely result in a verbal or physical fight.
What type of boundaries might someone who values family have.
open ended question
You are at an event where everyone is bungee jumping, but you don't want to participate.
I've decided not to.
Your classmate started throwing paper at the back of your head to get your attention.
Physical