Positive discipline
What is Step one of positive discipline?
1. teach the behaviors you want using positive practice
What is step one of how to give clear directions?
1. get your child's attention
1. What is step one of using positive practice to correct misbehavior
show empathy for your child's feelings, don't use but or it negates your empathy statement
What is one of the skills of calm consequences?
as soon as a child misbehaves take deep calming breaths before saying anything
What is step one for following the rules for choosing consequences
1. consequences need to match the severity of the misbehavior
What is step two of positive discipline
2. Decide on a negative consequence ahead of time, discuss them with your children
What is step two of how to give clear directions?
Give him or her a warning ahead of time if possible
What is step 2 of how to use positive practice to correct misbehavior
2. describe what your child did wrong. explain just now you
What is another one of the skills in calm consquences?
When a child misbehaves think of it as a teaching moment and ask yourself what skills is my child missing in this situation?
What is step 2 of rules for choosing consequences
2. kids need to know what the consequences are before hand
What is step 3 of positive discipline
3. give clear instructions
What is step 3 of how to give clear directions?
3. Tell him or her exactly what to do. Explain what how and when you want it done
What is step 3 of how to us positive to correct misbehavior
state the correct thing your children needs to do
What is one of the attitudes for calm consquences?
1. I want to be a personal trainer for my child not a punisher
What is step 3 of rules for choosing consequences
3. Consequences need to be mild and short in duration
What is step 4 of positive discipline
4. remain calm
What is step 5 of how to giver clear directions
5. Use please and then tell dont ask
What is step 4 in how to use positive practice
4. give consequences that can be reduced if your child practices the correct behavior
What is another one of the attitudes of calm consquences?
What is step 4 of following the rules of choosing consequences
4. consequences need to involve a response cost
What is step seven of steps of positive discipline
7. make sure your kids know that they are loved
What is step 8 of how to give clear directions
8. here are some directions that do not work: chain directions, vague directions, question directions
What directions do not work?
1. chain directions 2.vague directions
c. question directions
d. lets...
e. directions followed by a long explanation
What is another attitude of calm consequences
I can choose to be not angry
What is step 5 of following the rules for choosing consequences
5. consequences need to be given calmly and not in anger