Reading feelings
Body Language
Compliments & Positive Self-Talk
Problem Solving
Conversation Killers
100

S in SLAM 

STOP, look & listen to the person 

100

F in FEVER 

Face them 

100

You ARE very thoughtful 

Level 3 

100

F in FASTER 

FREEZE and identify the problem

100

Professor 

Know it all 

200

L in SLAM 

LOOK for signs and see if you can figure out the feeling 


200

E in FEVER


Eye contact 

200

Your hair looks nice 

Level 1 


200

A in FASTER

Come up with ALTERNATIVES

200

Miss Piggy

All about me!

300

A in SLAM 

ASK a question to clarify 

300

V in FEVER 

Voice 

300

You ARE a good friend 

Level 3


300

S in FASTER 

Select a SOLUTION

300

Stone Wall 

Getting-no-where 

400

M in SLAM 

MAKE a decision about what to do 

400

E in FEVER

Expression (should match tone) 

400

Hey, that was a good jump shot!

Level 2 

400

T in FASTER 

TRY it out!

400

Bunny rabbit 

Mumbling

500

Strategies for strong emotions 

Go for a walk                                                       

Talk to someone you trust                                  

Take deep breaths

Listen to music

Exercise

Draw or Paint

Read a book

Make a to-do list

Get a drink of water

Take a break

Cuddle your pet

Play or make plans with a friend

Stretches

500

R in FEVER 

Relax 

500

I like the way you think 

Level 3 

500

ER in FASTER 

Evaluate and Retry 

500

Chatter box 

Never ending rants 

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