The beginning
What were your first impressions of each other?
I thought you were boujee, looked bhaddie like those type of vibe girls based off your tiktok, but on the phone I thought you were very nice and beautiful.
Who takes longer to get ready?
Def my boo
What’s one thing you admire most about me?
Your drive not just for your future but yourself. I told you I love how you put yourself up to this standard (I do think you don't give yourself enough grace) but the way you hold yourself up to these standards because you know you can achieve them and truly believe in yourself is admirable. You do so many things and don't really complain about it neither you just get it done.
Who said “I love you” first?
I did
Who apologizes first after an argument?
Mostly me but thats because it's mostly me starting stuff
Where did you think things were going after we first met?
I didn't have a final idea because you never know, but I wanted to get to know you more I was interested.
Who’s the better cook?
What’s your biggest fear within yourself?
That im not enough that I'll get abandoned or that if I get close enough whoever is around me won't like every part of me.
What is our favorite love language that both of us give to each other?
My favorite is touch and words of affirmation from you
What’s something small we argue about the most?
What do you remember most about the first time we hung out?
I was mad nervous but I remember just being like wow this is the girl I've been talking to, just being in awe of how beautiful you are, and just soaking up the moment.
If we could binge-watch one show together forever, what would it be?
I don't think it would be a show but The Notebook
What’s something I’ve taught you about yourself?
That having a big personally isn't a bad thing, that the right people will enjoy those parts of me and that I should believe that within myself too.
What’s your idea of the perfect date night?
We get something to eat, either relax at a spot that we call ours or explore a new spot, and then just spend rest of night together just us
What’s one thing we’ve overcome as a couple?
The issues in the beginning with your past and i'd say still overcoming long distance
What’s one thing you were nervous about in the very beginning?
If you were taking me serious or not
What’s the silliest fight we’ve ever had?
I feel like we fight over dumb stuff more than anything but i'd say directions.
If we could change one challenge we’ve faced, what would it be?
I wouldn't change a challenge I faced, but I would change the financial struggles my parents faced/face.
What’s the most romantic thing we’ve done together?
The late night beach
What’s the hardest moment we’ve faced together?
I'd say the past two arguments the one we just got into and the one before you came here
What made you realize you wanted to be with her?
When I would pick up my phone hoping you were the one contacting me, calling/text you first everyday and looking most forward to being with you.
What is one random thing only we would know about each other?
How truly weird we are but also how loving
Where do you see us in 10 years?
Married, in our own place, have at least a kid by then, traveling, enjoying our lives.
What’s the most surprising way I’ve shown you love?
Your patience, im not used to it at all and it surprises me each time because a lot of people (including me) aren't patient and so you always holding that space just shocks me everytime.
What is something that I do that hurts you?
When you get real cold sometimes when upset/say how I you cant do this anymore (I know you say that it doesn't mean us but it doesn't sound like its not because of everything else that you say in those text messages)