A teammate says, "I'm terrible at this!"
What's one thing a good coach might say?
Examples:
Big feelings are like ocean waves.
True or False:
Every wave lasts forever.
False.
Feelings rise, peak, and eventually come down.
If you could only pack three comfort items, what would you bring?
Examples:
You're stuck inside on a rainy day and feel bored.
Choose one healthy way to spend 20 minutes.
Possible activities:
Future You sends you one encouraging text message.
What might it say?
Examples:
A teammate is afraid to try because they think they'll fail.
What's one small first step you would encourage?
Name three things someone could do while waiting for a big feeling to shrink.
Some examples:
Finish the sentence:
"When my brain gets loud, it helps when I ______."
Possible answers:
Someone says something rude at school.
Name two choices that might help instead of making things worse.
What's one thing Future You would thank you for doing today?
A teammate had a really bad day and says,
"Nothing went right."
Can you name two things a coach might ask them?
A character says, "This feeling will never end."
What could you tell them?
Possible answers
Imagine someone's "Brain Alarm" is getting louder.
What are three clues that tell them they should use one of their coping tools?
You have a really tough afternoon.
What's one thing you could do before deciding the whole day was "bad"?
Possible answers:
If Future You had a superpower, what would it be? (For example: being a good friend)
A teammate made a mistake and wants to quit.
Finish the sentence:
"Making mistakes helps us ______."
You're surfing a huge intense emotion.
What's one thing that might make the wave BIGGER?
A character says, "I don't want to hurt myself...but my Brain Alarm is REALLY loud."
What could help them make it through the next 10–15 minutes?
Which one do you think would be easiest to try first?
Finish the sentence:
"Being brave doesn't always mean ______."
Possible answers:
Imagine Future You sees someone having a really hard day and thinking about hurting themselves.
What advice would Future You give them?
Examples:
What's the difference between a coach who yells all the time and one who encourages you?
Possible answers:
What's something that usually helps intense waves of emotions get SMALLER?
Imagine your Brain Alarm has been at an 8/10 for two days.
Would you...
A. Keep it all inside.
B. Let someone on your support team know.
C. Pretend everything is fine forever.
B
If today were a video game level, what "power-up" (for example: support, happiness, courage, etc.) would help you the most?
Examples:
Every hero has a "Save Point" (a moment of safety) where they can recover before continuing.
What are five Save Points a person could have in real life?