Qualities of the Inner Person
Thoughts, Beliefs, & Attitudes
Life Skills
Behaviors
The Big Picture
100

Strength in the face of pain, difficulty, grief or fear

Courage

100

This type of thinking often fuels shame and keeps people stuck.

negative self-talk

100

Talking, Listening, Sharing, Expressing

Communication

100

This is the behavior pattern of acting on urges without pausing to think.

impulsivity

100

True strength means being able to do this with emotions.

feel and express emotions (or “be vulnerable”)

200

Drive, desire, the reason for acting

Motivation

200

This mindset shift involves seeing challenges as opportunities to grow.

growth mindset

200

Counting to 10, breathing, positive self-talk, grounding, stress management

Coping Strategies/Skills

200

Behaviors that are repeated often and automatically, sometimes without awareness.

habits

200

This is not one of the main five senses but when you make a positive connection with a group of people you feel a sense of __

Belonging

300

The capacity for understanding one's own or another's thoughts, feelings, motives, and problems, self-awareness

Insight

300

Name one value that could guide someone in recovery.

honesty, family, health, freedom, acceptance or growth

300

Identify the problem, gather information, brainstorm solutions, weigh your choices, take action

Decision Making

300

Repeating this kind of harmful behavior can lead to relapse (e.g. isolating, lying, skipping meetings).

self-sabotaging behavior

300

Showing up consistently, even on hard days, is an example of this quality.

discipline or commitment

400

The ability to bounce back especially after something difficult 

Resilience

400

This inner compass helps guide your decisions toward a life you care about.

values

400

Relaxation, walking, healthy eating, proper sleep, setting aside “me” time, taking breaks, rewarding yourself

Self Care

400

Doing something that goes against your values often results in this feeling.

guilt or shame

400

This value encourages understanding and accepting others without judgment.

compassion or empathy

500

This word means doing the right thing even when no one is watching.

integrity

500

This shift in mindset helps people take ownership of their actions

personal responsibility or accountability?

500

Maintain limits with self and others, protecting your personal and emotional space, avoid negativity

Setting *or Maintaining Boundaries

500

What are the three components of the cognitive triangle 

500

TWO ANSWERS You’ve got to give these to get these and when you have these for yourself you show these to others

Love and Respect

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