How to make sure to never forget a name
Critical Listening
Don't argue or judge prematurely
Five ways to improve conversation immediately
Listening Therapy
100
Make a consciuos decision to remember all the names of the people you are about to meet
What is get ready and listen
100
Not judging ideas before completly understanding them
What is Listening for info before evaluating
100
Make sure you do THIS before arguing or judging.
What is understand?
100
If you are curious enough to engage with someone and validate that they are interesting.
What is Show interest in and be curious about those you talk with
100
improved social skills
What is benefits of therapeutic listening
200
What is their name or ask them to repeat their name if you did not hear it.
What is Repeat
200
The acceptability of an idea often depends on it's source
What is Evaluate the speakers credibility
200
Meanings are not in words but in THIS.
What are people?
200
in informal conversation speakers monitor themselves so that they do not dominate by talking to much
What is balancing the talking and listening or taking turns
200
we are less able to hear/understand the human voice
What is overaroused
300
Does their name or surname remind you of someone you know?
What is Association
300
The evidence is recent enough to be accurate
What is Examine the speakers evidence and reasoning
300
should be sincere requests for more information
What are questions?
300
Avoid phony praise which bears little resemblance to the way we converse with our friends
What is giving genuine compliments and real praise when appropriate
300
stimulates the polyvagal system which regulates behavioral reactivity through three neural circuits
What is music
400
Try to create a picture with as many elements As possible
What is Create a picture
400
The evidence is from a reliable source
What is Examine the speakers evidence and reasoning
400
counterproductive and not examples of true listening
What are counterfeit questions?
400
if our energy is high and vibrant, we lift the conversation
What is keep your energy up
400
a structured program of listening to specially designed music
What is listening therapy
500
The more you do this the faster you will become to associate with remembering names
What is practice
500
Not letting yourself be swayed by emotion
What is Examine emotional appeals
500
outlined in chapter 3 of our textbook
What is troublesome language?
500
ask elicit questions that elicit detail, these are often Who, What, Why and Where questions
What is ask better questions
500
we listen with
What is our whole body
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