"Nice try" and "Probably so" are examples of this.
What are neutralizing arguing statements.
100
"Oh man", "How sad", and "What a bummer" are examples of what type of response.
What is an empathetic response.
100
When parents share this, parents end up with more control in the end.
What is control.
100
This type of parent uses lots of words and actions that rescue or indicate that the child is not capable or responsible.
What is a helicopter parent.
100
This skill does not come naturally to most parents, in fact, in the past our first response would have been anger.
What is empathy.
200
"Oh bummer, I'm going to have to do something about this, but not right now. Don't you worry about it."
What is delaying the consequence.
200
Give to examples of enforceable statements.
What is I would be happy to______when you_____, or feel free to ____ after you've____.
200
Give an example of sharing control with your child.
What is "Do you want to wear your coat or hold it?"
200
This love and logic parent uses lots of actions, but very few words.
What is a consultant.
200
This is one way to make sure love and logic stays part of your daily life.
What is continuous practice.
300
Real world, and logically imposed.
What are two different types of consequences.
300
Contributions
What is what Love and Logic call chores.
300
Anger teaches children to look at adults anger, this teaches children to look at their lives and their decisions.
What is empathy.
300
This skill is used as a time of recovery for the child, not a time-out.
What is the uh-oh song.
300
Giving kids a treat or reward because their behavior gives you energy!
What is a reverse energy drain.
400
A tune you can sing when the adult has immediate control.
What is the "Uh, oh song"
400
Parents use this technique to motivate their children to stop negative behavior.
What is an energy drain?
400
A child forgets his/her lunch at home, this problem is the:
What is the child's.
400
These can be done to help the parent get energy back after an energy draining behavior.
What is chores.
400
These words help our kids to stop and think about what they should do and the decision they should make.
What are thinking words.
500
A parent who has an intensifying problem with their child's behavior and wants to create a game plan should try this skill.
What is a strategic training session.
500
Age eight or nine
What is the age that a child should be able to cook for the family once a week.
500
A child leaves their coat on the playground and it gets stolen. This is an example of:
What is a natural consequence.
500
When all is said and done in this parenting adventure, this is the most important thing to build with our child.
What is relationship/connection.
500
-Give the child a task he can handle.
-Hope that the child "Blows it"
-Let equal parts of empathy and consequences do the teaching
-Give them the same task again