when you continue to discuss the same topics
repetitive
You want to join in a conversation with someone. What's the first step to show interest?
Casually look over
To find out what someone likes, their interests, hobbies, etc... you this them this
a question
Don't speak too loudly
Using Good Volume
What type of conversation is Anna having?
interviewer
Final step if they seem interested in talking to you and you want to start a conversation
Introduce yourself
You find a topic you and Bob find interesting, you've found a...
common interest
You ask this TYPE of question to keep the conversation going
Open-Ended Questions
Someone who takes control the conversation and doesn't share the conversation
conversation hog
This gives you something to talk about and an excuse for starting a conversation
Mentioning the Common Interest
Sometimes you answer your own question to..
tell/share something about yourself
This is an example of...
Bad Eye Contact
someone arguing over every little thing
argumentative
asking follow-up questions, answering your own question, and sharing information about yourself
trading information
questions only require a short response, like yes or no answers
ask follow-up questions
You do this when maintaining good conversation
Good Body Boundaries
a way to indicate to want to start a conversation
casually look over
- Are they talking to me?
- Are they looking at me?
- Are they facing me?
Assessing their interest
questions are questions where answers are longer and can lead to more conversation
open-ended questions
This is one example of what NOT to do
policing