CBT
DBT
Sensory Processing
Wild Card
100

Noticing that you consistently feel angry when someone interrupts you

Identifying triggers 

100

I usually yell and explode at people when I'm angry, but instead now I will keep my voice level and calm.

Opposite action

100

A way to calm the body using auditory senses

Listen to calming music, white noise, ocean sounds, etc

100

Someone has been upsetting me repeatedly. I approach them calmly and clearly/respectfully address the situation to put an end to it. 

Improving communication skills

200

I used to get angry and frustrated when I was presented with a challenging scenario, but now I think of it as a character-building experience 

Changing your thinking 

200

I got angry when I thought that someone was accusing me of something, but then I thought things through and looked at it from their point of view. 

Check the facts

200

Small tactile objects to manipulate with the hands

Fidget toys

200

When I am angry with someone, I will remember: Describe the situation, Express how I feel, Assert what I need, Reinforce others when they treat me respectfully, be Mindful of my emotions, Act confident, and Negotiate to find a compromise that works in everyone's best interest 

DEAR MAN 

300

When I'm feeling angry, I take a walk to calm myself back down. 

Developing coping skills

300

I am getting increasingly frustrated with my housing situation, but I will choose to make peace and accept what is happening. 

Radical acceptance 

300
Relaxing thermal stimulation

Warm shower/bath, heated blanket

300

This will provide stimulation to my mouth which has been proven to reduce anger

Chewing gum

400

I have been doing my own research into relaxing, deep breathing exercises that will calm me when I'm feeling frustrated.

Learning relaxation techniques

400

I feeling extremely angry - I have reached my boiling point - to avoid exploding, I choose to engage in intense physical activity for 10-20 minutes that raises my heart rate 

TIPP (Temperature change, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Paired muscle relaxation)

400

A way to manage anger using deep pressure

Weighted blanket, hug self tight

400

Looking at something visually appealing can distract you from feelings of anger  

Fish tanks/aquariums, a calming video or TV show, looking at photos of loved ones

500

Instead of getting frustrated and giving up, I will figure out a way to fix this. 

Problem-solving approaches

500

I am feeling particularly frustrated about something that usually doesn't bother me, but then I realize I haven't eaten all day and take a moment to sit down and eat a healthy meal - now I feel better!

PLEASE (Physical illness, Balanced eating, Avoiding mood-altering substances, Balanced sleep, Exercise)

500

Provides proprioceptive input and relaxation

Stretching or gentle yoga

500

When I'm feeling stressed or angry, I may smell something pleasant and this can help calm me down. 

Aromatherapy 

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