Challenges in Relationships
De-Escalation and Termination
Strategies for ending Relationships
Strategies for Recovery
What constitutes Relational Violence
100
Violations of understandings between people in relationships
What is failure events?
100
An explanation of deception and detection as processes affected by the transactional nature of interpersonal interactions.
What interpersonal deception theory?
100
Ending of a relationship by mutual agreement of both parties.
What is bilateral dissolution?
100
You need to vent your feelings, if not to your ex, than to a sympathetic listener, in a journal, or in a some other form.
What is to express your emotions?
100
Repeated invasion of a person's privacy by a stranger or acquaintance who desires or assumes a close relationship.
What is obsessive relational intrusion (ORI)?
200
Apologies, excuses, justifications, denials and silence
What is ACCOUNT or response to reproach?
200
Intentionally holding back some of the information another person has requested or that you are expected to share.
What is deception by omission?
200
Ending of a relationship by one partner, even though the other partner wants it to continue.
What is unilateral dissolution?
200
Understanding what occurred in the relationship is one way to get a handle on your current emotions. You need to accept the reasons for the breakup and work toward acceptance.
What is figure out what happened?
200
Repeated, unwelcome intrusions that create concern for personal safety and fear in the target.
What is stalking?
300
1. Confront the transgression, 2. Manage emotions, 3. Engage in sense making, 4. Seek-forgiveness, 5. Grant forgiveness, 6. Negotiate values and rules, 7. Transition, monitor, maintain, or renegotiate. pg.284
What is the seven steps to achieve forgiveness, given by Waldron and Douglas Kelly?
300
Deliberate presentation of false information.
What is deception by commisson?
300
Abrupt and unplanned ending of relationship.
What is sudden death?
300
When we view the end of a relationship as the end of a dream. In order to deal with a loss more realistically, Weber suggests mentally reviewing your partner's flaws.
What is realize, don't idealize?
300
Using violence to control or dominate.
What is Intimate terrorism?
400
Relationship challenge that is more prevalent due to internet relationships and is common with military couples.
What is Physical Separation and Distance.
400
Crying, conceding, or apologizing in response to a harmful message.
What is a acquiescent response?
400
Systematic progression of a relationship through each of the DE-escalation stages.
What is incrementalism?
400
Finding yourself feeling relief and joy, and finding humor, or irony in the breakup can help you cope with the grief of the breakup.
What is prepare to feel better?
400
Meeting attempts at control with a violent response.
What is Violent resistance?
500
Intercultural relationships, people with different ethnicity, races or religious identities.
What is Relationships that challenge Social Norms?
500
Feelings of anger, hurt, distrust, worry, or concern aroused by the threat of losing a relationship.
What is emotional or affective jealousy?
500
1, Intrapsychic Phase, 2. Dyadic Phase, 3. Social Phase, 4. Grave-Dressing Phase
What is the relationship termination stages?
500
Some of the words to accept from others are "it not want to will get better." Although we may not want to believe it, we do recover.
What is Expect to heal?
500
Responding with violence to a specific relational conflict or tension.
What is Situational couple violence?
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