Manners Matter
You want something, but you don’t say this magic word — suddenly people start ignoring you. What word did you forget?
➡️ Please
What personal quality can prevent you from being close to the Prophet ﷺ peace be upon him on the Day of Judgement, even if you do acts of worship?
Bad manners and bad character
Your mom asks for help while you're on your phone. You pretend you didn’t hear. That’s okay, right?
No — ignoring is disrespectful.
Pretending not to hear is a form of disobedience. Good manners mean listening to your parents and responding kindly — even when you're busy.
You can show bad manners and still be close to the Prophet ﷺ in Jannah.
False
The Prophet ﷺ said the people with the best manners will be closest to him in the Hereafter. Good character is more important than just outward actions.
A camper drops their lunch and looks embarrassed. Do you laugh, help, or act like you didn’t see it?
Help kindly
Laughing or ignoring makes the person feel worse. Helping them shows empathy and kindness — exactly what good manners look like.
You're talking, your friend starts talking, then you talk louder… Who's showing good manners?
Neither. Interrupting is bad manners.
What everyday thing counts as charity but doesn’t cost a single dollar?
A smile
Keep on smiling because its SUNNAH
A counselor corrects you in front of others. You feel embarrassed. Should you argue to defend yourself?
No — stay calm and respectful.
You can talk to your counselor later if needed, but arguing shows bad manners. Staying calm shows maturity and good adab.
It’s only polite to say “thank you” if someone older gives you something.
False
Politeness has no age limit! We must say “thank you” to anyone, whether they are older, younger, or the same age.
A camper isn’t playing with anyone. You’re already with your group. What do you do?
Invite them to join you
Including others is a sunnah and a sign of good character. It shows you care about others' feelings.
You grabbed your snack first even though someone was waiting — did you show patience or pushiness?
Pushiness (bad manners)
“Do not belittle any good deed”— does that mean even something as small as not being rude still counts?
Yes! Every little good deed matters.
Your counselor says “Line up quietly,” but your friends are joking around. Should you follow your friends or your manners?
Your manners
Just because others are goofing off doesn’t mean you should. Real manners mean doing the right thing — even when it’s not popular.
You smiled at someone, and that counted as a sadaqah.
True
The Prophet ﷺ said a smile is charity. Even small acts of kindness like smiling are rewarded by Allah.
A parent calls you while you’re busy watching your favorite video. Do you pause, finish, or ignore?
Pause and help
Parents deserve respect. Helping them right away shows obedience, kindness, and adab (manners).
You said “Thank you,” but the other person said nothing. Which one of you still had good manners?
You — manners are about what you do.
The Prophet ﷺ said, “Love for your brother what you love for yourself.” So, if you love getting snacks first, what should you do?
Let others have a turn too.
Your dad is struggling with heavy groceries. You pretend to be tired. Good excuse or bad adab?
Bad adab (manners)
Helping our parents is part of being respectful and kind. Making excuses shows laziness, not manners.
Talking back shows you're brave and confident.
False
Talking back is a sign of disrespect, not bravery. Real confidence comes from speaking with kindness and calmness.
Someone skips the line but says “Sorry!” Do you forgive them or demand they go back?
Forgive and show manners
Forgiveness is a big part of Islamic manners. If they’re truly sorry, letting it go shows maturity and kindness.
Saying “You’re welcome” is only necessary for grown-ups. Is that really true?
Nope — everyone should use polite words.
True or False: The Prophet ﷺ said the best Muslims are the ones with the loudest voice and strongest opinions.
False — it’s the ones with the best manners.
You’re angry at a parent or counselor. What’s the most respectful thing to do first?
Breathe and speak kindly.
Anger doesn’t give you permission to be rude. Taking a breath and using respectful words shows control and good character.
The Prophet ﷺ said even small good deeds should never be ignored.
True
Even tiny good actions, like picking up trash or smiling, are valuable in Islam and can earn you reward.
You find a lost water bottle on the ground and no one sees you. What should you do?
Turn it in and tell your counselor — honest actions show true manners.
Good manners include honesty and responsibility. Even if no one is watching, letting your counselor know and returning what’s lost shows you care about others and want to do the right thing.