Your School Counselor
What is your school counselors name?
Mrs. Arcelay
True or False: I am in big trouble if I am called to Mrs. Arcelay's office
False, Mrs. Arcelay is a helping person in the school
True or False: The school counselor is in charge of discipline
False. Mrs. Arcelay is NOT in charge of discipline
What can you do if you are feeling sad?
Talk to the school counselor, social workers, school psychologists or another trusted adult. Spend time with friends, do something that you enjoy, listen to upbeat music, journal or color
How can you be responsible in school?
Pay attention in your classes, do your classwork, ask questions when you do not understand something, take good notes in class, turn in your classwork and homework.
How many years has Mrs. Arcelay worked for Meadow Hill?
This is her 3rd school year
Where is Mrs. Arcelay's office located?
End of the 6th/7th grade hallway, near the stairs to go down to 5th grade
Will Mrs. Arcelay visit your classroom?
Yes. From time to time, Mrs. Arcelay will visit your classroom for guidance lessons.
What are ways you can be a good friend?
Being a good listener, using respectful language, including others, being kind, able to compromise and stick up for them if you see/hear someone else being mean to them
Why is it important to keep your school materials, back pack and locker organized?
So you can easily find things, you will not waste time, reduce your stress and be ready to learn.
How many years has Mrs. Arcelay been a school counselor?
12 years
True or False: Teachers, parents or principals might ask the school counselor to meet with a student
True!
If Mrs. Arcelay is not available, who else at the school can students talk to?
-Ms. Douglas or Mrs. Santana (school social workers), Mrs. Weigel or Ms. Quijada (school psychologist), your teachers
Name 2 things the counselor can help students with
Problems with friends, schoolwork, organization, behavior, planning for high school and careers
Why is it important to come to school everyday?
To get better grades, develop social skills and friendships, avoid getting into trouble, promotion to the next grade
What college did Mrs. Arcelay graduate from?
Bachelor's degree: Mount Saint Mary College
Master's Degree: Mercy College
Will I get to see the school counselor right away?
Sometimes, but not all the time. Mrs. Arcelay will make time to meet with you, but it might take a day or 2 because she might be in classrooms or meeting with other students.
True or False: Mrs. Arcelay only wants to help a few students
False! Mrs. Arcelay wants to help ALL students strive academically, socially and emotionally, as well as help them make their plans for high school and beyond.
How should a student behave when they visit the school counselor?
Students should be respectful, responsible, open minded, safe and kind. Most of all be REAL. Be honest with the counselor and yourself!
What should you do if you are not understanding something in class?
Raise your hand and ask a teacher for help. Email your teacher for help. Ask your teacher if they provide any extra help. Do not wait until you are failing the class!
Does Mrs. Arcelay have any pets?
Yes, a cat named Callie
How can you get an appointment with the school counselor?
Ask your teacher for a pass or email Mrs. Arcelay. You MUST have a pass or be called to Mrs. Arcelay's office.
What does confidentiality mean?
What's said in the school counselor's office stays in the school counselor's office. UNLESS: someone is hurting you, you want to hurt someone, you want to hurt yourself or you give permission to tell another trusted adult
What are some things I can do if I am feeling angry or anxious?
Take some deep breaths, write what is bothering you, talk to a friend, talk to a helping professional at the school (school counselor, social worker, psychologist)
Why did Mrs. Arcelay become a school counselor?
She loves working with kids, talking to kids, helping kids, encouraging kids and problem solving with kids.