SELF-LOVE
ONE DAY AT A TIME
ACTIVE ADDICTION
REFLECTION
CHECK-IN
100

How do you practice self-care?

Exercise, spending time with loved ones, journaling, listening to music, taking a bath 

100

Name one thing that made you feel grateful in the last 24 hours.

A conversation you had, ate your favorite food, went outside.

100
What are some excuses you used during your active addiction? 

"I have it under control so I don't need help."

"Everyone is addicted something."

100

How have you seen yourself progress in your recovery? 

Using healthy coping skills, sitting with emotions and processing them. 
100

Name 3 things you have control over.

Actions, reactions, choices, and the boundaries you set.

200

What is something you are proud of yourself for?

School, sports, parenting, financial, personally 

200

How can you let others support you?

Let them hold you accountable, allow them to check in with you daily
200

How has your relationship with yourself changed since your addiction? 

Self-worth, love, and respect has decreased. 
200

Name 5 things you are grateful for.

Family, CFR, pets, health

200
What goals have you recently set for yourself?

Health, education, relationships, employment  

300
What makes you a good friend?
Ability to listen/give advice, compassionate, trustworthy
300

Name 3 emotions you are feeling today.

Sadness, anger, fear, happiness, love, anxiety, shame
300

How has addiction affected your relationships? Have they improved since your seeking sobriety?

Addiction creates emotional distance between people, creates a hostile environment, impacts ones ability to trust.

300
What is a hard lesson that you were grateful to learn?

Love is not enough. 


You can't force someone to change if they don't recognize a problem with their behavior 

300

Name 3 triggers. How do you cope with them?

Could be people, places, things, emotions, or events

400
What are your coping skill to deal with stress?

Journaling, meditation, going for a walk, talking about it

400
What is your personal definition of recovery?

Recovery is a process of change through which people improve their health and wellness, live self-directed lives, and strive to reach their full potential. 

400

If you could give yourself advice during your active addiction. What would it be?

Although its hard, recovery is possible. 

There is light at the end of the tunnel. 

400

How do you respond to situation you have no control over?

Do you shut down? Do you try and focus on what you can control? 

400
What challenges are you currently facing?

Finances, relationships, health

500
What does self-love look like for you on a daily basis?
Affirmations, fueling your body, getting enough sleep
500
What is one thing you need to let go of today?

Comparing yourself to others, unrealistic expectations, guilt, the need to control everything.

500

What are so of the lies you told yourself in your active addiction. 

You are worthless. You do not deserve happiness. 

500

How do you think your negative thoughts influence your behavior? Give an example.

My negative thoughts fed my addiction.

500

What are some unchangeable things in your life that you are struggling to accept? 

Things that happened in the past, certain interactions with people, relationships 
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