What Does it Feel like?
Traits and Abilities
What's the fact?
How can it help?
Things that Hurt
100

Anxiety

"This feeling makes your heart race, your thoughts spiral, and even small tasks feel overwhelming."

100

This trait allows you to bounce back from setbacks and adapt to change with strength.

What is resilience?

100

Myth: "Expressing emotions makes you weak."  

Why it's a myth: Vulnerability actually requires strength. Expressing emotions is a sign of self-awareness and courage, not weakness.

100

listening to music?

"This art form can reduce cortisol levels, improve mood, and even help regulate emotions through rhythm and melody."

100

This behavior involves constantly putting others’ needs before your own, often leading to burnout and resentment.

What is people-pleasing?

200

Depression

"This state feels like a heavy fog has settled over your mind, making joy feel distant and motivation hard to find."

200

This ability helps you recognize and manage your own emotions while understanding others' feelings.

What is emotional intelligence?/Empathy 

200

Myth: "If you ignore your feelings long enough, they'll disappear."  

Why it's a myth: Suppressed emotions often resurface in unhealthy ways—through stress, physical symptoms, or emotional outbursts.

200

spending time in nature?

"This natural setting lowers stress hormones and boosts feelings of calm and connection."

200

This internal voice criticizes your every move and makes you feel like you’re never enough.

negative self talk / inner critic 

300

Bipolar 

"This condition makes your energy swing from extreme highs to crushing lows, often unpredictably."

300

This behavior reflects your ability to set boundaries and say no when needed.

What is assertiveness?

300

Myth: "Mental health means always being happy."  

Why it's a myth: Good mental health includes experiencing a full range of emotions. Happiness isn’t constant—it’s one part of emotional balance.

300

mindfulness?

"This practice involves focusing on the present moment and can reduce rumination and anxiety."

300

This pattern of thinking assumes the worst will happen, even without evidence.

What is catastrophizing?

400

Low Self Esteem 

"This feeling causes you to constantly doubt your worth, even when others reassure you."

400

This habit involves taking care of your physical health to support your mental well-being.

self care 

400

Myth: "Negative emotions have no value."  

Why it's a myth: Emotions like sadness, fear, and anger carry important messages. They guide growth, boundaries, and self-protection.

400

journaling?

"This activity can help organize thoughts, track patterns, and release emotional tension."

400

This action involves pretending to be okay when you're not, often to avoid judgment.

What is emotional masking?

500

Disassociation 

"This experience makes you feel detached from reality, like you're watching your life from outside your body."

500

This mindset helps you view challenges as opportunities for growth rather than threats.

being optimistic/growth mindset 

500

Myth: "Anger is a bad emotion."  

Why it's a myth: Anger is natural and can be constructive. It signals boundaries, injustice, or unmet needs—it’s how we express it that matters.

500

volunteering?

"This action boosts self-esteem and creates a sense of purpose by helping others."

500

This pattern of thinking has us believing that, unless you were absolutely perfect, you could have done better.

perfectionism 

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