Electronic Communication
Name two forms of electronic communication.
Email, texting, social media, IM, phone calls
True/False
It is ok to repeat a joke, if the person you told it to asks you to repeat it.
True. Although our rule for appropriate use of humor is to not repeat jokes, it is ok to repeat a joke, if the person who you told it to asks you to repeat it for another person.
Give me two examples of social groups that kids your age might participate in.
sports teams, cheerleading, drama club, band, chorus, bookworms, etc.
True/False:
When first getting to know someone, it is important to be a little more serious.
True. It is important to be a little more serious when first getting to know someone, because you don't know what the person's sense of humor is like and you don't want them to think you are weird.
Give me an example of when it is not ok to tell a joke to someone.
At a funeral, while the teacher is talking in class, when you are taking a test, during a wedding ceremony, during church services,when a friend is upset about something.
Give me an example of a cover story for making a phone call to someone.
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What are two examples of topics for jokes that could be considered insulting to some people?
religion, nationality, color of skin, politics, gender, someone's appearance, etc.
When trying to join a social club, about how many times will you be rejected?
a. 5 out of 10
b. 7 out of 10
c. 3 out of 10
In 5 out of 10, or 50% of situations, you will be rejected from a social club. This is ok...you can always try to join a new club.
What is the main thing you are looking for when having a conversation with someone you don't know?
Common interests--Common interests are those things that we have in common with someone else. Common interests are what starts and continues friendships.
Why is it important to pay attention to your humor feedback?
Because humor feedback let's us know whether the person likes our humor.
Why is it important to ask the person, who you are calling, whether they are available to talk at that time?
Because sometimes when you call someone, they might be busy doing something else or getting ready to leave to go somewhere.
Why is it important to not repeat jokes to the same person?
Because one that person has heard the punchline, he/she may get bored and no longer think it's funny.
What is a sign that people do not want you in their social club?
They might ignore you, they don't ask for your contact information, they do not invite you to social outings, etc.
What are two ways that you can tell a person is interested in talking to you?
Eye contact, body facing forward/toward you, the person is talking to you.
True/False: a knock knock joke is an appropriate joke to tell your middle school friends.
False, knock-knock jokes are jokes usually told by younger children. If you are telling a joke to a peer who is close to your age, make sure your jokes are age appropriate.
Give me two important details of information that you need to give when leaving a voicemail for someone.
Say who you are
Say who you are calling for
Say when you are calling
Give a cover story for calling
Leave your phone number
Say goodbye
What is an inside joke?
It is a situation or story that you experienced with another person or group of people. An inside joke occurs when you are talking about the story/experience, and some of the people you are talking to don't understand, because they did not share in the experience with you.
Why is it important to consider a person's reputation when looking for new friends?
Because your reputation is what people think about you. If you choose to be friends with someone who has a poor reputation, chances are that you will also get the same kind of reputation, even if you don't participate in the same type of behavior.
What is a follow-up question?
A question someone asks the other person in response to a question that was previously asked.
For example: "What is your favorite color?"
A: "Red"
Follow up Q: "What is your favorite color?"
When leaving a voicemail message, what is the two message rule?
The two message rule states that when leaving a message for someone, you should never leave more than two messages at a time. If you leave more than two messages in one day, the other person may find it annoying and not get back in touch with you.
What is cold calling?
Cold calling is when you call, text, email, or IM someone without their permission.
An example might be a telemarketer calling your phone to try and get you to buy something they are selling.
What is the difference between someone laughing at you and someone laughing with you?
When a person laughs at you, they may point their finger at you, make a face (like rolling their eyes) or respond in a sarcastic way.
When a person laughs with you, it is because they have enjoyed your joke and might laugh and and want to tell a joke to you.
Where can you meet people who like computers or video games?
Best Buy, computer or video game clubs, arcades etc.
What is the difference between a close-ended and an open-ended question?
Close-ended questions are those that end with short responses, like "yes" or "no" or one/two words.
Open-ended questions are those that ask the other person to think about their response and usually keep the conversation going.
Why is it not a good idea to try and make new friends on the internet?
Because it is very dangerous, you don't know who the person is that you are talking to, or they could be a predator.