Power & Control
When your partner prevents you from doing the things you enjoy and seeing people that you enjoy being with it is called: _____________
What is isolation?
Barb just got asked out by Bob. On their 1st date Bob, declares his undying love for her. Is this a red flag?
Yes, if the relationship moves too fast and your partner tells you they love you too soon it is a red flag for the relationship.
How do you obtain privilege?
You are born with it!
Name 3 types of human trafficking.
What is domestic, sexual and labor?
Give 3 examples of how to be respectful to your partner.
Listen non-judgmentally.
Value their opinion.
Be respectful.
Shared Power.
If your partner does not physically hurt you, but gives you looks or uses gestures to scare you, this is called ___________.
What is intimidation?
It is snowing and dark outside when you leave to go to the library, your mom texts you to make sure you arrive safely and asks you to text her when you are leaving so she can be on the look out for your arrival.
This is NOT a red flag. It is acceptable for our parents to check on our health, well-being and whereabouts.
If you have a degree, you have _____________ privilege.
What is education privilege?
Name 3 people that could be considered your intimate partner.
siblings
boyfriend/girlfriend
step siblings
foster family
parents/cousins/grandparents
Making family decisions together and mutually agreeing on a fair distribution of work is called ____________.
Shared Responsibility/Shared Power
Spreading rumors about your partner is what kind of power and control?
What is intimidation?
Mark and Marcy are getting ready to go to a dance. Marcy tells Mark to shave or she won't be seen with him in public. While Mark has been trying to grow a beard, he shaves because Marcy insisted.
This is a red flag. Your partner should not control how you dress, your appearance etc. Your body is your own.
"King of the Castle" is a phrase that describes what type of privilege?
What is male privilege?
If you are logged into your partners account, is it okay to go their messages, emails and social media?
No, you should never read messages without permission.
Jealousy is a normal human response. True/False?
True - everyone experiences jealous emotions from time to time. It is not, however, healthy to allow these feelings to consume you or make you behave in a violent and aggressive manner.
What type of power and control is it when your partner treats you like a servant, makes all the decisions or defines male and female roles?
What is using Social Status or Privilege?
Your phone was broken and you were unable to stay in touch with your significant other. Immediately upon seeing you, they ask who you were with and accuse you of cheating on them. To prevent them from getting upset in the future, they demand you text them multiple times a day and call them before you go anywhere.
This is a Red Flag. Both excessive jealousy and controlling behaviors are unhealthy.
If you can afford going to an ivy league school without a scholarship, you have __________ privilege.
What is economic privilege?
Name 2 things you could do to help a friend in an abusive relationship.
Listen to them.
Tell them it is NOT their fault.
Offer to go with them to tell a friend/teacher/family.
Provide them with STOP DV resources & phone number.
Name another term for an order of protection.
Restraining Order, Stay Away, Refrain From, Family Offense Petition
The term used to explain when someone plays mind games on you; making you think you are going crazy.
What is gaslighting?
Barb and Dan broke up last month. While Barb is in Stewarts eating an ice cream, Dan shows up to buy milk.
This is not a red flag. However, IF this keeps happening and Dan starts following her, liking her social media posts, texts her constantly and calls her then it might become stalking behavior.
Going to the store and being able to find band-aids that match your skin tone ("nude" color) is an example of ___________ privilege.
What is racial privilege?
Name 4 types of Domestic Violence
physical
sexual
technological
psychological/emotional
economic
What can the NYS Office of Victim Services do for a victim?
What is provide compensation for out of pocket expenses incurred as a victim of violent crime?