ABA
Mom
Events
Bonus
100

A coach (BI) has to cancel a session

Little deal - they will see you on another day

100

Mom says no to dessert

Little deal - you can have dessert on another day

100

You are told you're not allowed to clean up at crossfit

Little deal - It's ok to skip cleaning up sometimes. It is important to share with other members of the group.

100

Someone tells you to turn down the TV

Little deal - turn the TV down to be polite. It's important to share the space we live in with everyone. If you feel upset, use coping skills.

200

Someone says "no" to stacking hearts

Little deal - use coping skills, try another activity

200

Mom is busy with work but you want to tell her something

Little deal - you can wait for mom to be done. You can ask for help writing it down so you don't forget.

200

You slept too late and missed breakfast

Little deal - It's ok, you can eat lunch instead. If you are upset, use coping skills.

200

Someone interrupts my activity (stacking hearts, putting away dishes, watching a video, etc.)

Little deal - It is ok to pause what I am doing to listen to someone for a few minutes. It might be important.

300

You have a new coach (BI)

Big deal - New friends are fun but also can make you nervous. Be nice and use coping skills while you get to know your new friend.

300

Mom gets hurt

Big deal - use coping skills to stay calm, ask for help from an adult if they are around. Help mom and do what she asks of you.

300

Someone moves dishes while you are putting them away

Little deal - this doesn't mean I am doing a bad job. I an use my words and ask them to stop.

300

A caregiver has to take a day off

Little deal - sometimes people have things they need to do or get sick, and its ok. You will have someone else help you that day.

400

A coach (BI) leaves the case, you won't see them again.

Big deal - This is a big change, but change is part of life. Coaches and other helpers will come and go but I can use coping skills (talk about my feelings, use deep breaths, ask for a hug from mom) and make new friends when old ones leave.

400

Mom takes away your tablet

little deal - I can make good choices and earn it back

400

Crossfit is cancelled for today

Little deal - you can go next time. You can exercise at home if you still want to move your body.

400

A caregiver stops working with me

Big deal - This feels bad but it is a part of life and we need to remember that we will be ok. Caregivers will come and go but we can use coping skills to help us feel better (like talking about our feelings, remembering the good times, taking deep breaths, getting hugs from mom). Also remember that we will make new friends when old ones leave.

500

Someone tells you to do something you don't like 

Little deal - you can use your words and let her know. You can use coping skills and calm yourself down.

500

Mom goes on a business trip and leaves me home with caregivers or grandma

Big deal - This can be upsetting but I am okay staying home with my caregivers or grandma. I can use coping skills and talk to someone if I feel sad and miss mom. I can also call mom on the phone.

500

Your schedule changes without you knowing

Little deal - sometimes changes happen and you have to be flexibe. You can use coping skills if you feel upset.

500

Someone threw away something you wanted

Little deal - I can ask them why they threw it away and ask to get it back. If its not ok to keep (because it is trash) I can use coping skills to help with feelings and move on.

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