Attraction
Name one thing that makes you attracted to someone's personality.
Funny, Kind, Supportive
Texts you a lot, but not too much
Could be Flirting!
When someone calls you twenty times in one day because they are interested in dating you.
Unhealthy
Role-Play: You are interested in a friend to become a sweetheart, how could ask them out on a date.
Things to remember... uses your words, ask for their number, call or text to ask about doing a fun activity together.
Someone who is dating someone else already
Red Flag - How would you feel is someone was flirting with someone who you are dating. Focus on friendship.
Name one thing that could make you attracted to someone's looks.
Smile, nice eyes, clothing, hair, body type
Asks you questions about your day, hobbies and interests.
Could be Flirting!
You have common interests and they are interested in spending time with you doing fun things.
Healthy
Role-Play: Someone is interested in dating you and asked you out but you are not interested.
Remember to be kind, caring, yet assertive/speak up on how you feel.
Someone who has already told you that they are not interested in dating.
RED FLAG - Respect what they have told you and move on and focus on your friendship.
Name something that would make you attracted to someone's behavior.
Hard worker, Social, Shows mutual interest, Shows respect for others
Tells you that they have a sweetheart and talks about them a lot.
Not Flirting
You are on a second date and they are pressuring you to be physically/sexually romantic with them after you have said no.
Unhealthy - Report this to a trusted adult
Role-Play: If you are interested in flirting with someone what is one compliment you could give?
Be kind... compliments can be about looks, personality, and how they make you feel.
Someone who is under 18, but you are attracted to them and you think they like you.
Red Flag! - Any type of romantic/sexual relationship with someone underage is illegal and will result in police involvement. Focus on a friendship
Name something that is not attractive to someone's personality.
Mean, Argumentative, Bossy, Lots of Drama
Tells you they are busy a lot and doesn't respond to your calls or texts.
Not Flirting!
You are on a date with a sweetheart and consent is given to hold hands and you are comfortable with that but then your partner tries to kiss you without asking first.
Unhealthy - always ask for consent. You can always speak up, just because you say okay to holding hands does not mean you are comfortable with other physical or sexual activities and consent needs to occur.
Role-Play: State an "I" feeling about something you are not happy about with your partner.
Sometimes "I" feel frustrated, mad, sad or angry when.........
Someone who is the same gender as you and you have romantic/emotional/sexual feelings towards them.
Daily Double: This depends on You and whom you are attracted to. Some people may have the feeling and act on them, some people have feelings and decide not to act on them because they are not comfortable with them. Some people are not attracted to the same gender.
True/False: If you are interested in someone it is important to notice and say nice things about them.
True
Someone tells you that they really like you and are interested in dating.
FLIRTING !!!
If you are interested in kissing. You ask your sweetheart and they say yes, showing consent.
Healthy
Let's say you are talking with someone who you want to take on a date. Role play asking someone three fun places you could suggest?
Out to eat, coffee, mall, movies, bowling, arcades - it makes it even better when you already know and pick an option that you know that they would like.
You are attracted to your paid support worker, who comes to your house to spend time with you while they get paid to help you.
Red Flag! They are working and are NOT available to be your sweetheart. They are there to help you not date you.