What social skill could make this conversation much better?
a) taking turns
b) active listening
c) receiving a compliment
b) Active listening
What social skill is the doctor using in this photo?

Survey Says:
The doctor uses active listening with her patient.
What are these four employees doing during the boss' business presentation?
Is that a social DO or a social DON'T??

Survey Says:
Inappropriate body language
or
Not showing Active Listening

"It's a DON'T, it's a DON'T,
It's a DON'T DON'T DON'T!"

What is happening here?
Is this a DO or a DON'T?

SURVEY SAYS:
The boy is overreacting to a small problem.

"It's a DON'T, it's a DON'T,
It's a DON'T DON'T DON'T!"

Literally speaking, spilling milk has a problem size of 1 to 3.
Jasper is sobbing, with a reaction size of 4 to 7.
What is the girl in the purple shirt doing?
Is it a social DO or a social DON'T?? 
Survey Says:
The girl is helping her sad friend.
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What are the boys doing in the photo?
Is it a social DO or a social DON'T??

Survey says:
The boys are gossiping about the girl.

"It's a DON'T, it's a DON'T,
It's a DON'T DON'T DON'T!"

True or False?
The are many emotions besides happy, sad, and mad.
True.
There are many feelings, including pride, surprise, fear, anxiety, disgust, jealousy, to name a few.
True or False:
It is ok to come to school for 8 days without a shower, a new change of clothes, or brushing your teeth.
False.
If you are not well groomed, sensitive students and teachers might think you don't care (or know) that you are a bit stinky and grossing people out.

"It's a DON'T, it's a DON'T,
It's a DON'T DON'T DON'T!"

The average American says "thank you"
a) 3 times per day (1095 times ar year)
b) 6 times per day (2190 times a year)
c) 10 times per day (6000 times a year)
d) 15 times per day (5475 times a year)
Survey says....
....b) 6 times per day
"Thank you" is an extremely important way to recognize someone's efforts to help you, to express appreciation, and show gratitude. If you don't say "thank you" enough, it will look like you believe that others owed you their time, energy, and generosity. That is not a good look.
Who do you thank in a day? (discuss)
What is the emotion that goes with this expression?
(Hint: This is one of the 7 facial expressions that we learned about)

What facial expression is this?
Survey Says:
Disgust!
In the picture, what is the person with the giant marker trying to do?

a) set a boundary of personal space
b) tell others that she is kind of a big deal
c) actively listening
a) She is trying to set a boundary of personal space.
What social skill is needed to solve the problem in the picture?

a) conversation linking
b)asking open ended questions
c) perspective-taking
d)
Survey Says:
The skills needed here is Perspective-Taking, so the people can understand why they can't agree.

This type of question works well to get a discussion going.
What is an open-ended question?

What concept are these people demonstrating?
Survey Says:
These people are demonstrating perspective-taking or POV.
True or False:
'Reading the room' means looking around to see what the posters on the walls say.
False.
'Reading the room' is an expression that means to take a moment to see which people are in the room and to try to understand what their moods are.
Giving a thoughtful compliment is one way to:
a) interrupt a conversation between two teachers
b) change the topic of a conversation
c) start an argument
d) start a conversation with a person you don't know
Survey Says:
d) Giving a thoughtful compliment is one way to start a conversation with a person you don't know. Who knows you might even make a life-long friend.
"Hi I'm Malik. I 'm a fan of your Nets shirt!"

What is the expected distance to stand away from a person you are talking to.
a) 1 mile b) 1 foot c) 3 light years d) 3 feet
SURVEY SAYS:
What is 'an arm's length' or approximately 3 feet?
What expression is this?

Survey Says:
SURPRISE!
This is what a person might think if you keep looking around the room when they are speaking with you.
Am I boring her?
Does he even want to be talking with me?
Maybe there's another person here whom she would rather be talking to now.
In this drawing what is the man in the purple shirt doing relates to the conversation skills we learned about?
Is it a social DO or a social DON'T??

Survey Says:
The man in the purple shirt is talking off-topic and not making sense either.

"It's a DON'T, it's a DON'T,
It's a DON'T DON'T DON'T!"

What could make this conversation much better?
a) if each person tried to talk louder than the other
b) if the two people took turns talking
c) if one person said that they never liked the other in the first place.
Survey Says:
b) If these two took turns, they might hear each other and understand what the other feels.
What social skill does the woman in blue need to learn?
a) respect personal space b) respect different perspectives about coffee c) use an indoor voice

Survey Says:
a) respect personal space
Jen feels defeated because she didn't do well on a project. Jen tells her teacher, "There's no way for me to learn how to do this type of project!"
This comment shows:
a) pride b) fixed mindset c) sick mindset d) growth mindset
b) fixed mindset
When someone says "I can't" it can stop them from trying. Using a growth mindset, and thinking,"I can do this" is the only way to make success possible next time.
When you see a classmate overreact extremely to a problem, what is something you should not say?
What is something you should do?
a) tell them to get over it
b) ask them to check out your art work
c) Let an adult know that the student needs help and try to stay out of it.
Things you SHOULD NOT say:
"Shut up, you are such a cry baby."
c) Let an adult know that the student needs help and try to stay out of it.
What are the two girls in the background doing?
Is it a social DO or a social DON'T??

Survey Says:
The girl is being teased on text or social media, which are both forms of cyberbullying

"It's a DON'T, it's a DON'T,
It's a DON'T DON'T DON'T!"
