Coping Skills
A coping skill that you can do with your fingers.
What are finger taps?
You see a friend with a bruise, they said an adult did it.
Tell! Someone is in an unsafe situation.
accepting change is what kind of mindset.
Growth Mindset
Your friend wants to play outside and you want to play inside, how can this be solved
Compromise, take turns
Your friend wants you to take something off of the teacher's desk.
Don't do it, you'll get into trouble. That is stealing
A coping skill named after an animal.
What is:
the shark
the flamingo
the turtle
Someone tripped your friend in the hallway, they are bleeding
Tell!
When someone is hurt or in danger you need to tell an adult.
These are the 2 types of mindset.
Growth and Fixed
This friend shares with you, treats you the same no matter what and doesn't let people treat you poorly.
A real friend.
Another students wants you to take something out of a friend's bag and give it to them
Don't do it! That is stealing.
This coping skill takes some time and requires you to go slowly.
What is counting to 10?
Someone in the seat behind you is pinching you and you've already asked them to stop.
TELL! Someone is hurting you
I can do this, I can try hard things, I have to try to get better are examples of this mindset.
Growth mindset
This friend is mean to you when it's just the 2 of you but when you're with other people they like you.
Fake Friend
Your friend has a toy that you want to use, so you ask them to borrow it.
Awesome job! Ask before you use something.
Name a coping skill that is your favorite.
*Correct*
Someone took your pencil.
Don't tattle, fix it yourself
I can't do this, I'm stupid, I suck at everything, is an example of this.
Fixed Mindset
This friend only wants to hang out with you because of things that you have.
Fake friend
You "borrow" your brother's bike, but didn't ask and bend the handle bars.
That is taking/stealing and now you've broke it. Not a good choice.
This coping skill is like giving yourself a hug.
Please demonstrate your answer
What is the pretzel?
Someone is hurting you but they said not to tell
Tell anyways! Don't keep secrets about being hurt.
The oak tree and the palm tree represent these parts of growth mindset.
Oak tree - closed mindset, it doesn't move or adjust to anything new
Palm tree - open mindset, it moves and adjusts to things going on around it.
Your friend accepts you for who you are, not what you can do for them. They only care about how you treat people, not the things you have.
A real friend
Someone tells you to call a peer a rude name and then they'll be your friend.
Don't do it! Being rude is never a way to make friends nor is it making good choices.