Assertive or Rude
Example: "Give me a snack now!!!!"
What is being rude?
Example: You are tired after a long day and Dad wants you to take out the trash do you say....
A) "UGHHH Ask Noham, Im tired!"
B) "Give me one more minute and I'll do it. I'm a little tired today."
What is B?
Talking loudly at basketball game
What is an outside voice?
Think what to when you learned about being a social chameleon. What did that mean?
Blending in to the situation that you are in with the people that are there.
You: "UGHHH you never let me help."
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Example: "I don't like that. Please stop."
Example: Xavier said he doesn't want to be your friend anymore. Now the teacher pairs you up for a group activity. Do you say...
A) "Teacher can I talk to you?" and tell her what happened
B) "Sure. Whatever."
What is A?
Talking in the library
What is a whisper?
which one of these is correctly being a social chameleon?
A) Calling your friends "hey man! what's up?"
B) calling the teacher "Hey dude, what's up?!"
C) Calling your basketball coach "Hey man! what's up"
What is A)
You are watching TV in the living room. Noham comes in and take the remote and tries to change it.
You push him and try to take the remote back.
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Not Helpful.
Example: Ms. Nicole and Ms. Carmen show up to the house but your body hurts and you feel hot. Do you say...
A) "Do we have to do this today?"
B) "I'm feeling a bit sick. Can I talk to my mom before we start?"
What is B.?
Talking to parents inside the house
Your principal gives you an instruction. What shows a good social chameleon ?
A) "Ok. fine"
B) "Yes, Mrs. Principal"
C) "Alright man i'm coming."
Your mom is making dinner. Noham is playing a video game. Your dad is fixing one of the cars. Everyone is making a lot of noise and your head hurts.
You decide to go upstairs, close the door and sit in silence to help your headache.
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Helpful!
Example: " I don't feel like talking right now. I need some space."
What is being assertive?
Example: Your teacher asks you to make a presentation and present it to the class in 10 minutes. No warning. Do you say...
A). " I can't do this. You didnt give us enough time!"
B) "Can I go last? I'm feeling nervous."
What is B?
what is regular inside voice?
What do you do?
- ______ -
Don't do it.
You are having a bad day. You fell and your mom and dad did not give you a hug.
You remember your jar. So you read you positive notes.
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Helpful!
Example: Ms. Nicole wants to eat McDonalds and Ms. Carmen wants In n Out.
What do you do?
Whoever you chose to support is ok. :)
Example: You ask your mom for a snack and she says no. You're hungry. You start to feel sad. The TV is too loud. You can't go outside and it feel like nothing is going your way today.
What do you say? How are you feeling? What do you DO?
You are overwhelmed! Try to distract yourself. Listen to some music. Ask for other options with an inside voice.
What voice level should you use?
what is inside voice?
If your friends say "Break the rules its fun!"
Is this being a social chameleon ?
No, it's not.
You got in trouble in class because you wanted to make your friends laugh. But this means you didn't listen to the teacher and now they called home.
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