Bully or Buddy?
Someone lets you play with them during an activity.
Buddy/Friend
If I don't want a hug, I can say _____.
No and set that boundary with the person.
Someone doesn't follow med pass order when lining up. Should you push them and make them move?
No, tell an adult and let them handle it.
What nice thing could you say to a peer?
Good job! Nice work! and other encouraging or positive statements.
Someone stands too close to you.
Ask for space.
Someone calls you a mean name.
Bullying
True or False? Everyone has the right to personal space.
True.
Someone hurts your feelings. Should you hit them or tell an adult.
Tell an adult.
I can use my _____ instead of my hands.
Words, voice and form communication.
Someone tells you, "Don't tell anyone."
Tell a trusted adult.
Someone accidentally bumps into you and says "I'm sorry."
Accident (Not bullying)
How do we know someone wants space?
They say "No," or move away, or ask you to stop.
A peer says they don't want to play. What's a good choice?
Find another activity or another peer.
What is something you can say instead of yelling.
Please stop, I don't like that, can we talk later?
Someone laughs at your peer for falling.
Help them or ask if they are okay.
Someone keeps making jokes about you everyday on the courtyard.
Bullying
If someone says "Stop," what should we do?
Stop
Someone takes your coping item when staff wasn't looking. What is a calm choice?
Ask for it back or tell an adult.
True or False: Kind words can make someone feel better.
True
Someone continues to bother you after you asked them to stop.
Walk away or tell an adult.
Someone helps you when you are upset and tries to be a good peer.
Buddy/Friend
Give space, Listen, Keep hands to yourself, ask permission, etc,.
Deep breaths, count to 10, walk away, ask for help, process with staff/counselor, play with fidget, etc,.
True or False: Bullying is a great away to make new friends.
False
Name 3 ways to stop bullying or respect boundaries.
Walk away, tell an adult, use kind words, respect personal space, listen when someone says no, keep your hands to yourself, ask before hugging or touching, use coping skills instead of aggression.
ANYTHING OTHER THAN BULLYING OR DISRESPECT OF BOUNDARIES.