Sisterhood Round
What is the main goal of Sisterhood Round?
For PNMs to leave with a strong understanding of who Alpha Chi is and what being part of our sisterhood looks like.
Name all five of Alpha Chi Omega's values.
Character, leadership, academic achievement, personal development, and responsibility.
What does each score (1–5) represent on our PNM scoring scale?
1: She needs to be an AXO!
2: Embodies most of our values; we just need to get to know her better.
3: True maybe.
4: Not many of our values; she may need to talk to more people.
5: Sparkle and shine somewhere else!
True or False: You are allowed to tell a PNM, "I could really see you being a leader in this chapter!"
True! Personal "I" statements are allowed because they express your individual opinion, not the chapters.
You're talking to a PNM, and there's an awkward silence. What do you do?
Ask an open-ended follow-up question about something she previously mentioned to keep the conversation flowing.
Name three things we should highlight about Alpha Chi during Sisterhood Round.
Any of these:
Sisterhood experiences, our values, leadership opportunities, academic support, personal growth, friendship examples, or chapter involvement.
A PNM talks about struggling in one of her classes but deciding to attend office hours and develop better study habits. Which two values does this demonstrate?
Academic achievement and personal development.
What's the difference between giving a PNM a 2 versus a 3?
2 means she's already demonstrated alignment with most of our values, but we'd like to get to know her better. 3 means we're genuinely undecided about her fit.
A PNM asks you what you think about another sorority at Butler. How should you respond?
“I think every chapter has something great to offer! For me personally, Alpha Chi felt like the place where I could truly be myself, and I've loved the friendships I've made here.”
A PNM mentions that she's nervous about recruitment because she hasn't made many close friends at Butler yet. How would you respond?
Reassure her by sharing a genuine experience about how you've built friendships through Alpha Chi.
A PNM asks about your favorite sisterhood event. What should you include in your answer besides describing the event?
A personal story explaining why the experience was meaningful and what it demonstrates about our sisterhood.
A PNM shares that she helped organize a campus fundraiser, coordinated volunteers, and made sure everything was completed on time. Which two values does this demonstrate?
Leadership and responsibility.
A PNM demonstrates leadership, responsibility, and academic achievement through her experiences. You enjoyed your conversation but feel like you need to learn more about her. What score would be most appropriate?
2 — She embodies several of our values, but you want to get to know her better.
A PNM says, “Wait, I think I saw you at a frat party last semester!” How should you respond?
Stay calm and don't make the situation awkward. You can acknowledge it casually by saying, “Oh my gosh, probably! Butler is such a small campus!” Then naturally redirect the conversation. Avoid discussing partying, drinking, or anything inappropriate for recruitment.
During a bump transition, you notice the PNM is still in the middle of telling a story to the previous sister. What do you do?
Don't interrupt or abruptly change the subject. Allow her to finish her thought, then naturally join the conversation and build on what she was sharing.
Name three ways Alpha Chi Omega members can build stronger relationships with one another throughout the semester.
Any of these:
Sisterhood events, spending time together outside organized activities, supporting each other academically, and participating in chapter activities.
A PNM tells you she hasn't joined many organizations at Butler yet, but she's been challenging herself to meet new people and try activities outside her comfort zone. Which value does this most strongly demonstrate and why?
Personal development, because she's actively working on growing and becoming more confident in new situations.
A PNM is friendly and seems interested in Alpha Chi, but your conversation stays pretty surface-level. You don't have enough information to determine how well she aligns with our values. What score might be appropriate?
4 — It's hard to tell, and she may benefit from talking to more members. This score reflects limited information, not a negative judgment about her personality.
Name all five B's of recruitment that should be avoided during PNM conversations.
Boys, Booze, Bible, Biden, and Bucks!
You're talking to a PNM who mentions she's worried about finding her place in a chapter with over 150 women. How would you respond without giving her a generic answer like “Everyone is so close!”?
Share a specific, personal example of how you developed meaningful friendships in Alpha Chi, whether through sisterhood events, your MC, or everyday interactions.
A PNM has already visited Alpha Chi during earlier rounds. What should Sisterhood Round provide that she hasn't experienced yet?
A deeper understanding of our sisterhood, more personal connections with members, and a clearer picture of what everyday life as an Alpha Chi looks like before Preference Round.
A PNM shares that she balances a part-time job, a demanding course load, and involvement in a campus organization. She also mentions helping a friend through a difficult semester. Identify four Alpha Chi values reflected in her experiences.
Responsibility (balancing commitments), academic achievement (prioritizing coursework), leadership (potentially demonstrated through her campus involvement), and character (supporting her friend).
Why is it important to score a PNM based on her individual conversation rather than comparing her to other PNMs you've spoken with throughout the day?
Every PNM has different experiences, personalities, and strengths. Scores should reflect how well she demonstrates Alpha Chi's values based on the conversation, not whether she was more outgoing, involved, or memorable than someone else.
During Sisterhood Round, a PNM tells you that she already knows Alpha Chi is her first choice. What should you do, and what should you avoid saying?
Be excited that she's enjoying her experience and continue getting to know her! You can say, “I've really loved getting to know you!” but avoid saying anything that suggests she's guaranteed to come back!
During Sisterhood Round, a PNM tells you she's still unsure what she's looking for in a sorority. How would you help her navigate that uncertainty while keeping the conversation genuine?
Ask thoughtful questions about what she values in friendships and what she hopes to gain from joining a sorority. Share your own experiences in Alpha Chi to help her understand what our sisterhood offers, without pressuring her to feel a certain way or make a decision.