Curiosity (didn't) kill the cat
It can happen to you
When you hear the word "curious," what does it make you think of?
Can you remember a time when you felt curious, and if so, what was that like for you?
LOL
What is something that's guaranteed to make you and Cheyanne laugh?
Hit repeat
Are there any stories Cheyanne tells that you like to hear again and again? Are there any stories you tell that you enjoy repeating?
Something New
What is an activity you and Cheyanne could try together?
Time is money
What’s one thing you wish you had more time for right now? Why?
Observation is Key
When do you feel most close to Cheyanne? Where are you, what are you doing (are you doing it together?), etc?
Good and Bad
When was a time you were surprised by something?
Can you think of a time when you were surprised in a good way? What was that like?
How did you know you wanted Cheyanne to be your person? Were there ever times when you were uncertain about your relationship, and if so, what helped you get through that?
Something Borrowed
Something to share
What is one moment that you’d like to relive again and why?
BONUS: Ask Cheyanne the same question
Who are you, really?
What is something about Cheyanne that you are curious about?
Maybe there's a time in her life you'd like to know more about, or an aspect of her personality you'd like to get to know more.
You can do it!
Pick a small way to surprise Cheyanne this week, and note how she reacts.
Ex: Picking a small bouquet of flowers from your garden, bringing home a small treat from work/convenience store
Ask and you shall receive
Ask Cheyanne what she would like to talk about with you more--are there things she wished she knew about you but is afraid to ask?
Make a list!
Feelings Wheel
Look at a feelings wheel and make a list of the top 7 most common emotions you feel. Add this to a Random chooser tool and pick an emotion to talk about in session and/or with Cheyanne
!!!!!!BONUS!!!!!!
Ask Cheyanne about what makes her feel most close to you, and write down her response.
DATE NIGHT
Pick a day/time with Cheyanne for your next date, and you do the planning--give her a sense of what to wear, but you take care of the rest.
What is it like to be fully responsible for planning something? Is there anything difficult about it?
Timeline Time
Make a timeline with Katharine that goes over the major events in your life--good and bad. Share it with Cheyanne, and see what it feels like.
Excitement Helps
What things have you and Cheyanne done together that made you feel excited? How could you build more excitement into your relationship?
Feelings Wheel Remix
Look at a feelings wheel and make a list of the top 7 emotions you feel the least or have the hardest time understanding in yourself or others.
Add them to the random chooser wheel and pick one to talk about in session and/or with Cheyanne