One Love Relationship Jeopardy

Healthy Relationships 1

100

Benny and Kim have been dating for 3 months. Benny learned last week that Kim’s favorite flower is a rose. After she has a tough day Benny decides to get her a bouquet of roses. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

KINDNESS

200

​​​​​​​​Darius has a huge crush on Adriana but is nervous to tell their mutual friend Jalen. Darius decides to tell Jalen and Jalen never mentions a word of it to Adriana. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

TRUST

300

Because they enjoy doing different things, Darren and Jose alternate who gets to choose what they do on dates. Their approach allows both Darren and Jose to feel valued and heard in their relationship. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

EQUALITY

400

Jasmine and Anita are best friends who enjoy working on school projects together. When Jasmine explains that she would prefer to work on an upcoming history project alone, Anita completely understands. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

INDEPENDENCE

500

Jessie and Alyssa met during the first week of school and have been spending a ton of time together. After hanging out constantly for three days, Jessie lets Alyssa know that he wants to take a break. Alyssa tells him she understands and takes the break as an opportunity to get to know other students in their class. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

COMFORTABLE PACE

Healthy Relationships 2

100

Laila and Matt love to hang out. They laugh, let loose, and genuinely enjoy each other’s company any time they are together. Lalia and Matt make each other happy and know no matter what they can be themselves around each other. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

FUN

200

Liza is constantly hugging her friends. Her best friend Meg tells her it makes her uncomfortable. While Liza loves to give hugs, she is understanding of Meg’s boundaries. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

RESPECT

300

Chris and Matt are good friends who poke fun at each other sometimes. One day, Chris makes a joke about Matt’s dislike of sports. Everyone laughs including Matt, but later Matt lets Chris know how it made him feel. Matts feels comfortable letting Chris know which jokes are okay and which go too far. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

HONESTY

400

Ayana tells her friends Bella and Lisa that she is going on a date with Brad but asks them not to tell anyone. The next day Bella lets the secret out and everyone at school knows. When Ayana finds out what Bella did, she speaks to her about how she feels. Bella acknowledges her mistake and promises never to betray her again. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

TAKING RESPONSIBILITY

500

Ava is angry at Billy because he forgot about their date. Ava doesn’t want to say something she doesn’t mean and decides to hold off on having a conversation until she has calmed down. She tells Billy that they should wait until the next day to talk about what happened. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?

HEALTHY CONFLICT

Unhealthy Relationships 1

100

Teah and Demar just started dating. Teah tells Demar that every day at lunch they must sit together or else she won’t date him. She also tells Demar that he can't have any friends that are girls and must always tell her who he is with ahead of time. Demar is confused, he likes hanging out with his friends. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

ISOLATION

200

All week, Brian and Gabe had plans to hang out after school on Friday. That day, some of the guys in band ask Gabe to hang out. Instead of talking to Brian about changing their plan, Gabe decides to lie and say he has a doctor’s appointment. Brian sees a video of them all together and is upset Gabe broke his trust. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

BETRAYAL

300

After a few months of dating, Kim and Maggie are hanging out alone in Kim’s basement.  Kim keeps trying to take off Maggie’s shirt, but Maggie tells her she doesn’t think she’s ready for that. Kim responds, “Well if you really love me, then you'd do it.” Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

MANIPULATION

400

Ben and Carlos are best friends and have played on the B team for their soccer club for 5 years. When Carlos finds out that Ben might get moved up to the A team, he is upset they won't play together anymore. He tells Ben that he has to stay on the B team, or they will no longer be friends. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

SABOTAGE

500

Every week, Julia and Elena go to a park to hang out after school. When Julia finds that Elena sometimes hangs out at their park with other friends, she gets super jealous. Julia says, “I don’t care if you hang out with other people, but this park is OUR place! How could you go with someone else?” Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

POSSESSIVENESS

Unhealthy Relationships 2

100

Kayla and Emad are close friends and hang out a lot. Sometimes when they are in big groups, Kayla will make fun of Emad's appearance to score some laughs. She decides to tell him the jokes make her upset and feel small. Emad responds, “You know I’m not serious, we’re just joking around.” Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

BELITTLING

200

Sam has a big test coming up and knows he needs to study. His best friend, Chris, wants him to go to the county fair the night before the test. Chris pressures Sam saying, “What do you care about more this stupid test or our friendship?” Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

GUILTING

300

Deandre and Alexis are in a group project together and they decide to split the work in half. When they get their final grade, Deandre realizes that Alexis didn’t finish her half of the assignment and as a result they got a 50%. Alexis tells Deandre it’s his fault for not telling her exactly how to do it because she isn’t as smart as him. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

DEFLECTING RESPONSIBILITY

400

Gabby has a crush on Ryan, but he doesn’t feel the same way. Gabby tells everyone she has to dance with Ryan at the upcoming Homecoming Dance. She asks her teachers and Ryan’s friends if they can make this happen. At the dance, they dance together because she told his friends she would cry if he didn’t. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

INTENSITY

500

Rodrigo and Toni have known each other for a while. Toni knows to never talk around Rodrigo's friends because Rodrigo has a tendency to get really angry over small things. Toni is used to it and doesn’t mind this behavior. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?

VOLATILITY

General

100

True or false, you have to stay in a relationship unless there are 2 or more unhealthy relationship behaviors?

FALSE

There is no set number of behaviors that define abusive or unhealthy.  

200

True or False, abuse can only be present in a relationship if one person is physically harmed by their partner.

FALSE

Emotional or Sexual Abuse can make a relationship abusive.

300

A person who speaks or acts in support of an individual or cause; particularly someone who intervenes on behalf of a person being attacked or bullied.

UPSTANDER

400

This is a mutual and voluntary agreement between two people to do something that both people want to do. What term best describes this?

CONSENT

500

When something bad happens to someone and others consider it their fault instead of the person who did the bad thing. What term best describes this?

VICTIM BLAMING