Benny and Kim have been dating for 3 months. Benny learned last week that Kim’s favorite flower is a rose. After she has a tough day Benny decides to get her a bouquet of roses. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
KINDNESS
FUN
ISOLATION
BELITTLING
True or false, you have to stay in a relationship unless there are 2 or more unhealthy relationship behaviors?
FALSE
There is no set number of behaviors that define abusive or unhealthy.
TRUST
RESPECT
BETRAYAL
Sam has a big test coming up and knows he needs to study. His best friend, Chris, wants him to go to the county fair the night before the test. Chris pressures Sam saying, “What do you care about more this stupid test or our friendship, you never do anything for me!” Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
GUILTING
True or False, abuse can only be present in a relationship if one person is physically harmed by their partner.
FALSE
Emotional or Sexual Abuse can make a relationship abusive.
Because they enjoy doing different things, Darren and Jose alternate who gets to choose what they do on dates. Their approach allows both Darren and Jose to feel valued and heard in their relationship. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
EQUALITY
HONESTY
MANIPULATION
Deandre and Alexis are in a group project together and they decide to split the work in half. When they get their final grade, Deandre realizes that Alexis didn’t finish her half of the assignment and as a result they got a 50%. Alexis tells Deandre it’s his fault for not telling her exactly how to do it because she isn’t as smart as him. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
DEFLECTING RESPONSIBILITY
A person who speaks or acts in support of an individual or cause; particularly someone who intervenes on behalf of a person being attacked or bullied.
UPSTANDER
Jasmine and Anita are best friends who enjoy working on school projects together. When Jasmine explains that she would prefer to work on an upcoming history project alone, Anita completely understands. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
INDEPENDENCE
TAKING RESPONSIBILITY
Ben and Carlos are best friends and have played on the B team for their soccer club for 5 years. When Carlos finds out that Ben might get moved up to the A team, he is upset they won't play together anymore. Carlos attempts to go behind Ben's back to mess with his chance of advancing to the new team. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
SABOTAGE
Gabby has a crush on Ryan, but he doesn’t feel the same way. Gabby tells everyone she has to dance with Ryan at the upcoming Homecoming Dance. She asks her teachers and Ryan’s friends if they can make this happen. At the dance, they dance together because she told his friends she would cry if he didn’t. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
INTENSITY
This is a mutual and voluntary agreement between two people to do something that both people want to do. What term best describes this?
CONSENT
COMFORTABLE PACE
HEALTHY CONFLICT
POSSESSIVENESS
Rodrigo and Toni have known each other for a while. Toni knows to never talk around Rodrigo's friends because Rodrigo has a tendency to get really angry over small things. Toni is used to it and doesn’t mind this behavior. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
VOLATILITY
When something bad happens to someone and others consider it their fault instead of the person who did the bad thing. What term best describes this?
VICTIM BLAMING