They did what?!
Your friend is spamming the group chat with swear words and inappropriate comments. You have already tried ignoring it. What should you do?
Ask them to STOP- it is making you feel uncomfortable.
Your BFF made a joke that bothers you. They know what you are insecure about, and they brought it up in front of others as a joke. What should you do?
Talk to them one-on-one about how it makes you feel.
Give an example of a situation where you will use SEAL in your future.
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Give an example of when YOU gave a FAKE apology. (own up to it!)
Own up!!!
Explain what you look for in a friend.
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Your friend is STILL spamming the group chat with swear words and inappropriate comments even after you asked them to stop. What should you do?
Message them separately, leave the conversation, and/or tell an adult.
You are playing football at recess and are not aware of your surroundings. You run into a teacher. What should you do?
Check-in with the teacher that fell and seek medical assistance if necessary. Give a sincere apology.
What is L? (3 parts)
Lock-in
Lock-out
Pause
Define a fake apology.
Your friend is always laughing at you when you mess up.
You see your BFF going into someone's locker. What should you do?
Check in and remind them of the school rules.
Talk to the teacher and turn it in the next day. Learn from this mistake!
What is A?
Affirm/Admit/Acknowledge (explanation)
Define a TRUE apology.
Focuses on what you did that hurt someone, said with a genuine tone of voice, doesn’t want anything in return (like expect the other person to apologize back.)
Your friend is always getting jealous and angry with you without speaking to you calmly first. (multiple occasions, with you not doing anything to cause this reaction)
Probably not the healthiest friendship.
You see a classmate shove someone else at PE during a non-contact game. What should you do?
Quietly remind them of the rules of the game and/or tell the PE teacher.
You want to take your phone out at milk break to text your mom about pickup. What should you do INSTEAD?
Tell a teacher and call using the office phone or a classroom phone.
What is E?
Explain (explanation)
What do you think is the hardest part about apologies?
OWNING UP to a mistake or the inability to control the outcome.
Your friend calls you to check in on you after you had a hard day.
Best eva!!!!
Mr. Traverso makes a *good* teasing joke in class. What should you do?
LAUGH! 😂
You get excited about your birthday and spam your group chat with emojis. Your friends ask you to stop because they are doing homework. You want to send a few more as a joke. What should you do INSTEAD?
Possibly say, "My B- just so excited for this weekend! Call me if you can when you're done with HW!"
What is S?
STOP! (explanation)
Your brother throws his Goldfish at your face and laughs uncontrollably. Your mom tells him to apologize and he continues to laugh. Do you he is going to give you a true apology?
You want to go out of your way to make your friend smile. Not because you need to, but because you want to!
YASSSS