Weekly Topics
"Consider other peoples' _____"
Feelings!
When you are feeling _______ is it NOT the best time to address your child
Angry, frustrated, disappointed, outraged, etc.
What does H.O.P.E stand for?
or
What does T.I.M.E stand for?
H - hearing T - things
O - other I - I
P - people's M - must
E - experiences E - earn
What is one asset and one liability we listed during our Assets and Liability Topic week!
Assets: Kindness, compassion, caring, positivity, support networks, conducive, unconditional.
Liabilities: Anger, "tit-for-tat", gossip, vindictive, confusion, motive.
What position do you play?
The professional!
Structure
1. What does structure mean to y'all?
2. Calm/Conflict
3. Repair
1. Schedule/routine, responsibilities, taking on a parental role, cultural, spiritual, religious, "helped make me who I am", and impact trickles down
2. CALM:
"_______ might clash, but _______ complement themselves."
Both words start with "P"
"Personalities might clash, but principles complement themselves."
"When my child ___A____, I feel ___B___. This reminds me of ___C___ from my past. A healthier response could be ___D___." Discussion Prompt.
Name one A, one B, one C, and one D.
A - shuts down, meltdown, yells and throws a fit, is angry, is disrespectful, feels triggered, is dysregualted.
B - triggered, disrespected, overwhelmed, incapable, worried, reminded of younger self, angry, frustrated, like being supportive/understanding.
C - me/my younger self, experiences, learning opportunities.
D- opposite action, setting a specific time to feel before pushing self to focus on something else, stepping away, and having a safety plan/backup plan