Behind the Screen
This disappearing-message app has a ghost for its logo.
What is Snapchat?
Your teen gives you a dramatic eye roll. Before responding, take one of these.
What is a breath?
You don’t need to wait for a problem to start one of these with your child.
What is a conversation?
Before sharing a photo of your child, model this respectful habit by asking them first.
What is asking permission?
Tonight’s parenting session puts this before correction.
What is connection?
“What have you heard about vaping?” is this kind of question because it invites more than a yes or no.
What is an open-ended question?
A post disappears after 24 hours, but someone can use this phone feature to save it in seconds.
What is a screenshot?
“It sounds like you felt left out today.” This response acknowledges your teen’s feelings without necessarily agreeing with their behavior.
What is validation?
A car ride, a shared meal, or walking the dog can create these relaxed opportunities to check in with your child.
What are everyday conversation opportunities?
Your child receives a message asking for a private photo. Instead of responding or forwarding it, they should seek help from this person.
Who is a trusted adult?
“You can be upset, but you may not call people names.” This response combines understanding with one of these clear limits.
What is a boundary?
Your child shares something concerning. Before jumping into advice, you say, “Thank you for telling me. Help me understand.” You are practicing this skill.
What is listening without judgment?