Liking and Attraction
Types of Love
Listening
Conflict Resolution
Counseling Skills
100

What is Proximity?

What is being physically close to someone increases chances of friendship.

100

Name one component of Sternberg's theory

What is Intimacy, Passion, Commitment

100

What is active listening?

What is a communication technique that involves fully concentrating, understanding, responding, and remembering what the other person says.


100

What is the first step in resolving conflict?

What is stay calm and listen actively

100

What is the role of a peer counselor?

What is

1. Active Listening

  • Peer counselors listen attentively to their classmates’ concerns without interrupting.
  • They use skills like eye contact, paraphrasing, and asking open-ended questions.

2. Providing Emotional Support

  • Offer empathy and understanding when peers are stressed, anxious, or facing challenges.
  • Validate feelings without giving harsh criticism or judgment.

3. Encouraging Positive Choices

  • Help peers think through problems and explore healthy solutions.
  • Promote responsible decision-making and coping strategies.

4. Conflict Resolution

  • Assist in mediating minor conflicts between students using techniques like “I” statements and problem-solving steps.

5. Maintaining Confidentiality

  • Keep conversations private unless someone is in danger or needs adult intervention.
  • Build trust by respecting boundaries.

6. Being a Role Model

  • Demonstrate respect, kindness, and positive behavior.
  • Show leadership by promoting inclusivity and anti-bullying attitudes.

7. Referral to Adults When Needed

  • Recognize when a situation is beyond their ability and refer to a teacher, counselor, or trusted adu
200

Name one factor that influences liking.

What is

  • Similarity
  • Reciprocity
200

What does intimacy mean?

What is emotional closeness and trust

200

Name one active listening tip.

What is

  • Eye contact
  • Paraphrasing
  • Asking open-ended questions
  • Showing empathy
200

What are 'I' statements?

What is I-Statements help you express your feelings without blaming others. They start with "I" and focus on your feelings and needs. Example format: I feel [emotion] when [situation] because [reason]. I need [request]

200

Why is confidentiality important?

What is

It Builds Trust

It Creates Emotional Safety

It Encourages Honesty and Openness

It Shows Respect and Responsibility

It Has Limits to Keep People Safe





300

What does reciprocity mean?

What is we like people who like us back.

300

What is commitment in a relationship?

What is decision to maintain a relationship.

300

Why is paraphrasing important?

What is restating what someone has said in your own words to show understanding.

300

Why is staying calm important?

What is

1.Helps You Think Clearly

2.  people choose their words carefully.

3. It reduces impulsive actions they might regret         later.

4. lowers tension.

5. It prevents yelling, blaming, or hurtful comments.

300

Name one skill a peer counselor needs

What is a peer counselor should listen well, show empathy, communicate respectfully, protect confidentiality, stay calm, and know when to ask adults for help.

400

Why does similarity matter in friendships?

What is we tend to like people who share our interests, values, or backgrounds.

400

Which type of love includes passion and intimacy?

What is romantic Love

400

What does empathy mean?

What is the ability to understand and share another person’s feelings.


400

Name one step after identifying the problem

What is

  • Brainstorm solutions
  • Agree and follow through
400

How can empathy help in counseling

What is

1. It Helps Peers Feel Heard and Understood

2. It Builds Trust

3. It Creates Emotional Safety

4. It Calms Strong Emotions

5. It Encourages Positive Problem‑Solving

6. It Strengthens Peer Relationships


500

Give an example of proximity in school.

What is sitting next to someone in class, Working on the same project/team

500

Give an example of a family relationship

What is 

Parent-Child

Husband-Wife

Grandparent-Grandchild

500

Give an example of an open-ended question.

What is 

What was the best part of your day?” instead of “Did you have a good day?”

(More than a yes or no)

500

Give an example of brainstorming solutions

What is

  • Make a list of tasks and let each person choose one.
  • Split a project into equal parts by time or pages.
  • Ask the teacher for clarification
500

Give an example of supporting a new student.

What is supporting a new student means being friendly, listening to their feelings, offering help, and helping them feel included.

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