Construction
By what age do most people have their boundary foundations well established?
Age 3
The caregiver pulls away
Withdrawal
What law is also called Law of Cause & Effect?
The Law of Sowing & Reaping
What law includes loving others?
The Law of Responsibility
Will also except... The Law of Evaluation
What 2 words finish this sentence?
Proactive people do not ___________ rights, they ________ them.
Demand and Live
Will also except... Demand and Act them out
What age or timeframe is the 2nd natural stage of building boundaries?
Adolescents
The caregiver becomes angry
Hostility
What law do most 12 Step programs use?
What law uses a basic emotion and is not used correctly focus outside our boundries?
The Law of Envy
What word finishes this myth?
If I set boundaries, I'm being ____________.
Selfish
Will also except.... Anger or Disobedient
When are you too old to build healthy boundaries?
Never
The Caregiver forgets mistakes are the best way to learn.
Over-Control
What law should NOT include "Fear of", "Approval", or "Over identifying"?
The Law of Motivation
Will also except... Law of Evaluation
What law, when NOT used, can cause rage?
The Law of Proactivity
What is an important MUST when starting to set-up boundaries?
A Support Network
Will also except.... more the one person to support me.
By age 3 most children should have mastered appropriate "No" without fear of __________?
Fear of Loss of Love -or-
Withdrawing emotionally
The care-giver will do anything to stop a tantrum.
Lack of Limits
What law is all about communicating our boundaries?
The Law of Exposure
What law tells us to remember that we effect and can hurt other?
The Law of Evaluation
What 2 words finish this sentence?
We are responsible ______ others, and ______ ourselves.
TO and FOR
Name one of the 3 tools we use in building boundaries?
Anger
Ownership
The word "NO"
The child doesn't know what to expect from the caregiver.
Inconsistent Limits
What law do we often get wrong because we are projecting our feeling onto others and then forget about ourselves?
The Law of Respect
What law deals with lack of initiative?
The Law of Activity
Name one of the things Boundaries are designed to do.
1) Help us Guard our Hearts
2) Keep out the Bad
3) Keep in the Good