True or False
Only little kids can be kidnapped.
What is FALSE- Anyone can be kidnapped, even adults
Did this person act appropriately or inappropriately: Mr. Trade, a school teacher came into school. He said hello to his friend teacher Mr. Evans, and kept walking to class. While he was walking, he saw one of his students Susan and told her that she looked 'very fine' today and asked her to stop by his classroom during his lunch break and eat lunch alone with him.
What is - Mr. Trade acted inappropriately- WHY....
This is when a person is taken away against their will and forced to go somewhere away from the public.
What is kidnapping
A stranger walking down the street.
What is maybe- you need to be careful who is around you and how close they get to you.
A friend tells you she has a crush on a boy and wants you to keep it a secret. Do you tell her secret?
What is no, its not about her safety, so its ok to keep it.
Only girls are at risk for sexual abuse.
What is false- anyone is at risk for this.
Stacey and John are going to the corner store to get some snacks. On the way out of the building, they run into the building custodian who says he needs help in the basement, but only wants Stacey to go down and help him. He tells John to run along but not to tell anyone where Stacey is.
What is Innapropriate- WHY
This is when someone touched you inappropriately in your private parts.
What is sexual harassment or sexual abuse
A family member.
What is possibly- Some adults even people in our family can sometimes harm us. How?
A buddy tells you he is going to spy on his sister's friends while they take a shower, but to keep it a secret. Do you tell an adult or keep his secret?
What is tell an adult- it is wrong and a violation to watch someone in the shower.
I can be hurt be someone I know and trust.
What is TRUE- Like the weather some adults can seem nice at first them try to harm you. Most adults are nice but some are not.
Sam and Brit are walking to the store when a car pulls up and asks them to come over to the window because he needs directions.
What is Innapropriate- Why....
You are at a birthday party for your friend. An adult you don't know offers you a "special drink". Should you take it?
NO...why is this inappropriate?
A neighbor who you know and like.
What is probably not, but maybe. Remember the weather situation and boundaries. If an adult maintains appropriate behavior and boundaries its cool, but if they ask you to do something inappropriate then tell someone.
A friend tells you that a neighbor asked them to come over to their apartment. They went and they said that their neighbor tried to touch them and kiss them...but they dont want to make a big deal about it. Do you tell or keep thier secret?
What is TELL an adult you trust. They were viloated and possible sexually assalted so its ok to break the secret to help keep them SAFE.
It's ok for someone to touch you without your permission.
What is FALSE- No one has the right to put there hands on you in anyway unless you give them permission or invite them to do so.
You see your friend crying and obviously upset. They are in the hallway with a staff person who is talking to them.
What is appropriate WHY...
When an adult says something inappropriate to a young person about their looks or when an adult acts inappropriately with a young person
What is violation of boundaries- Boundaries are how certain people should act towards others. Adults should not act in a sexual manner towards children or ask children to help with "adult" situations.
A boyfriend or girlfriend.
What is possibly- even people who say they care about us can abuse us. How could this happen with a boyfriend or girlfriend?
A friend tells you they are planning a surprise party with their mom for their dad and to keep it a secret.
What is okay to keep a secret/surprise as it is not a safety issue.
Telling an adult that you have been harmed is wrong, it will only cause trouble.
What is FALSE!!!! You should find a trused adult to tell. They can make sure that you do not continue to be harmed.
During a day at the park with his family and friends an adult friend of Tina's uncle asks her to take a walk. Tina thinks he is pretty cool, and he has been cracking jokes all day. As they walk, she notices they are in a very secluded, private part of the park. As they walk he starts to put his arm around her waist as they are walking. He says "if you were just a little older, we could have been together."
What is inappropriate WHY ?
When something you own or have is taken away from you with force.
What is robbery/ stealing
A teacher or staff.
What is possible Most teachers and staff have been well trained and depend on their jobs with children for their living and as something they feel good about. But some may show inappropriate boundaries or actions. You still need to be aware of what adults are asking you to do and how they act towards you.
You are at the park and a neighbor you don't really know, but have seen around, offers you a ride home alone in their car. They say it's faster to get home that way and that they would also take you to get some ice cream too. Would you get into the car?
What is NO NO NO. NEVER get into a car with someone you don't know well. Once you are in that car they can go anywhere and take you anywhere.