True or False
Only little kids can be kidnapped
What is FALSE- Anyone can be kidnapped, even adults
Did this person act appropriately or inappropriately? Mr. Trade, a high school teacher, came into school. He said hello to his friend teacher Mr. Evans and kept walking to class. While he was walking, he saw one of his students, Susan, and told her that she looked 'very fine' today and asked her to stop by his classroom during his lunch break and eat lunch alone with him.
What is - Mr. Trade acted inappropriately- WHY....
What is kidnapping?
This is when a person is taken against their will, forced to go somewhere away from the public.
A stanger walking down the street
What is maybe- you need to be careful who is around you and how close they get to you.
A friend tells you she has a crush on a boy and wants you to keep it a secret. Do you tell her a secret?
What is no, its not about her safety so its ok to keep it
Only girls are at risk for sexual abuse
What is false- Anyone is at risk for sexual abuse.
Stacy and John are going to the corner store to get some snacks. On the way out of the building, we run into the building super who says he needs help in the basement but only wants Stacy to go down and help him. He tells John to run along but not to tell anyone where Stacy is.
What is Innapropriate- WHY
What is sexual harassment or sexual abuse?
Sexual abuse is any sexual activity that occurs without your consent. Sexual abuse is also when someone touches your private parts without your consent (touch, grab, hit, pinch, etc.)
Sexual harassment is when someone makes you feel uncomfortable with their sexual language (talking about your body / private parts or their body/ private parts sexually).
A family member
What is possibly- Some adults even people in our family can sometimes harm us. How?
Your friend tells you he is going to spy on his sister's friends while they take a shower, but to keep it cool, do you tell an adult or keep his secret?
No because it is wrong and a violation to watch someone in the shower without their permission
You can be hurt by someone you trust and know.
What is TRUE? Like the weather, some adults can seem nice at first, then ultimately change. In other words, an adult that you once trusted can become someone unsafe.
Katie and John decided to skip class and met up in the gym. John suggested to Katie to follow him to the locker room as it would be a better hideout until the next period. While in the locker room, John made a pass at Katie. Katie told John to stop, and he didn't!
What is Inappropriate- Why....
What are safe touches?
Safe touches are Touches with consent, Kisses, High fives, hugs
A neighbor who you know and like
What is probably not but maybe. Remember the weather situation and boundries. If an adult maintains appropriate behavior and boundries its cool, but if they ask you to do something inappropriate then tell someone.
a friend told you that a neighbor asked them to come over to their apartment. They went and they said that their neighbor tried to touch them and kiss them...but they don't want to make a big deal about it, do you tell or keep their secret
What is TELL an adult you trust. They were viloated and possible sexually assalted so its ok to break the secret to help keep them SAFE.
It's ok for someone to touch you without your permission.
What is FALSE- No one has the right to put their hands on you in any way unless you give them your consent!
Sam and Brit are walking to the bodega when Mr. Sans, who owns the bodega, tells the kids to come in the back and have a 'special drink. He says the drink is fun and has alcohol in it and that it will make them feel happy.
What is appropriate WHY...
What are Unsafe Touches?
Unsafe touches: Touches that are done without consent or make you feel uncomfortable.
Family Friend
What is possibly Yes and no- even people who say they care about us can abuse us.
While at school, a friend tells you that someone is hurting them.
Tell a safe adult
encourage them to speak up
tell you teacher , principal
Telling an adult that you have been harmed is wrong, it will only cause trouble.
What is FALSE!!!! You should find a trusted adult to tell. That trusted adult will ensure to help keep you safe and report it.
During a day at the park with his family and friends, an adult friend of Tina's uncle, Joe, asks her to take a walk. Tina thinks Joe is pretty cool, and he has been cracking jokes all day. As they walk, she notices they are in a very secluded, private part of the park. As they walk, Joe starts to put his arm around her waist as they are walking. He says, "if you were just a little older, we could have been together."
What is inappropriate why
A teacher or staff
What is possibly probably not. Most teachers and staff have been well trained and depend on thier jobs with children for there living and as something they feel good about. But some may not and show inappropriate boundries or actions. You still need to be aware of what adults are asking you to do and how they act towads you.
You are at the park and a neighbor you don't know but have seen around offers you a ride home alone in their car. They say it's faster to get home that way and that they would also take you to get some ice cream, too. Would you get into the car?
What is NO NO NO. NEVER get into a car with someone you dont know well. Once you are in that car they can go anywhere and take you anywhere.