Personal Space Basics
What is personal space?
The area around you that feels comfortable for you.
Is it okay to sit at someone’s desk without asking?
No.
Whose belongings should you touch without asking?
No one's
What are two polite ways to ask for permission?
“Can I…?” or “May I…?”
You’re waiting in line. The person in front of you steps forward. What should you do?
Take a step forward too, but keep a small space in between you.
True or False: Everyone’s personal space is the same size.
False — it’s different for everyone.
Why is personal space important at work or school?
It helps people feel safe and respected.
Is it okay to use your friend’s phone if they left it on the table?
No, ask first.
If you want to sit next to someone, what can you say?
Your friend is talking on the phone. Should you start talking to them right away?
No, wait until they are done.
How much space should you usually keep between you and a friend when talking?
About an arm's length.
You need to borrow a stapler from a co-worker’s desk. What should you do first?
Ask for permission.
What should you do if you find someone’s wallet on a desk?
Don't open it. Tell a teacher or a staff member.
What should you do if someone says “No”?
A coworker says, “Please don’t touch my things.” What should you do next time?
Remember to keep your hands off of their things.
What might someone do if you stand too close?
Step back, look uncomfortable, or move away.
Your classmate is working quietly. Should you walk right up behind them or give them space?
Give them space.
Why is it important to respect people’s privacy?
It shows respect and helps people trust you.
How does asking for permission make people feel?
Respected, comfortable, and safe.
You want to give someone a hug, but you’re not sure if they’re okay with it. What can you do?
When you’re not sure how close to stand, what can you do?
Put your hands on your hips. If your elbows touch the other person, than you're too close. If you're unsure if you're too close, you can always ask the other person.
What can you do if someone gets too close to you while you’re working?
Politely say, "can you please give me some space?"
Name two things that are usually private.
Examples: phone, purse, backpack, journal, emails.
When might you need to ask for permission at work?
Examples: borrowing supplies, entering an office, using shared items.
Your classmate seems upset and wants to be alone. What should you do?
Give them space, and check in later to see if they want to talk about it.