Family Roles in Addiction
Boundaries
Intimacy
Random-Oh Snap...
Happiness
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Survivors Roles refers to....
What is family members unconsciously take on a variety of “survival roles” to preserve the integrity and safety of their family. Though these roles may help them cope with the addict in the family at the time, in the long run this perverted role-playing may rob them of their identity and potential for happiness.
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Definition of Boundaries
What is; something that indicates bounds or limits; confines or restrain. A separation (i.e. borders between states; lines on a tennis court or football field
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Intimacy is defined as;
What is A shared emotional experience.
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Sternberg’s theory describes types of love based on three different scales._____,_____, and ______
What is Intimacy Passion Commitment
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What are the three concepts that are the definition of happiness?
What is 1.Pleasure/positive emotions 2.engagement 3.meaning
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Often the youngest child in the family assumes this role. By the time this child comes along, the family dynamic has deteriorated to a serious state of dysfunction. This is the child who is coddled and kidded, who is a source of amusement for family members.
What is the Mascot
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What are two ways boundaries can be displayed?
What is Physical & Emotional
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Having a fight with someone that you may or may not know is an example of ________ Intimacy.
What is Conflict
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Name the Defense Mechanism used in the following statement ; "At least I never had to steal to buy my drugs."
What is Rationalization
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Define: Resilience
What is; The ability to withstand and rebound from disruptive life challenges.
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The ______, usually the oldest child in the family and their role is to over achieve, to be over responsible. They will typically be model students and, later, very career-oriented.
What is The Hero
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The two ways that Physical boundaries are expressed are;
What is 1.Touching 2.Keeping distance when sitting, standing or talking
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You and Dennis spend all night having a healthy discussion about politics and global warming. What type of intimacy is this?
What is Intellectual Intimacy
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A persons maturity has little to do with age, but with the way they________,________, and _________
What is React Cope Reason
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S.O.A.P is the acronym that stands for...
What is ... S-Social Relationships O-Optimism A-Appreciation P- Purpose/Meaning
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The _______ means well but their efforts to help are counterproductive. This person is usually the closest to the addicted person, and their aim is to help the addict.
What is Enabler
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The 4 areas of emotional boundaries are ;
What is ; 1.Feelings 2.Trusting 3.Keeping confidentiality 4.Information sharing (gossiping)
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Sitting on the beach and watching a sunset with Dr.Richardson would be an example of ______ Intimacy.
What is Aesthetic
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Internal Locus of Control is defined as;
What is People with a high internal locus of control believe in their own ability to control themselves and influence the world around them. They see their future as being in their own hands and that their own choices lead to success or failure.
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Negative self talk has been shown to increase levels of ______, which predicts increased depression and anxiety over time.
What is Cortisol
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The 5 Family Survivor Roles are;
What is 1. The Hero 2. The Mascot 3. The Scapegoat 4. The Lost Child 5. The Enabler
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Healthy Boundaries have _____________, whereas Unhealthy Boundaries have few or none.
What is Limits
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There are 12 types of intimacy, name 6 of them.
What is; Sexual Intimacy Emotional Intimacy Intellectual Intimacy Aesthetic Intimacy Creative Intimacy Recreational Intimacy Work Intimacy Crisis Intimacy Conflict Intimacy Commitment Intimacy Spiritual Intimacy Communication Intimacy
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External Locus of Control is defined as...
What is ; People with a high external locus of control believe that control over events and what other people do is outside them, and that they personally have little or no control over such things.
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Name the three contributing factors to happiness AND the percentage that each has in the outcome of our happiness.
What is %50 Genetics, %40 Intentional Activity, %10 Circumstances....
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