Being fully present and engaged in the moment.
What is Mindfulness?
What are model of forgiveness we have covered in class?
Gordon's
REACH
Sell's intentional forgetting
Caring about others and wanting to help them.
What is empathy?
What does VIA stand for?
Values in Action
What are the three types of optimal experiences?
Mindfulness, Flow and Spirituality
According to Gottman which behavior is the most destructive in a relationship?
contempt
What is the benefit of flow?
Self-reinforcing activity
Who is the founder of Positive Psychology?
Martin Seligman
What is self-efficacy?
Belief that one's skills and capabilities are enough to accomplish one's desired goals in a specific situation
What type of activity gets you into the state of flow?
Intrinsic activity
What percent of your happiness in within your control?
40%
A person who is always positive and looks on the bright side.
What is an optimist?
What 3 components made up Sternberg's love?
passion, intimacy and commitment
Why do we not want to try to control uncertainty according to Langer?
Because it keeps us grounded in the present
As flow emerges, there is a loss of _______.
a. self-consciousness
b. self-control
c. self-efficacy
d. self-awareness
self-consciousness
Which brain chemical has been shown to be integral to the flow process?
a. GABA
b. dopamine
c. adrenaline
d. epinephrine
dopamine
Relationship problems, emotional disorders, and conduct problems have all been identified as some of the long-term consequences of what type of attachment?
a. secure
b. dismissive
c. fearful
d. insecure
insecure
What is the type of love called agape?
a. the search for the beautiful
b. it is given by the Divine
c. submission and obedience to the Divine
d. the affection in friendship
it is given by the Divine
According to Arthur and Elaine Aron, the natural byproduct of expansive love is ____________.
a. relationship satisfaction
b. compassionate love
c. romantic affection
d. consummate love
relationship satisfaction
What benefits are associated with those who practice forgiveness?
longevity, well-being, less depression, relationship satisfaction, etc.
The study of what makes life worth living, focusing on strengths, happiness, and well-being
What is Positive Psychology?
Is reconciliation always a part of forgiveness?
No
What are some benefits of spirituality?
well-being, better mental health, giving purpose and meaning, increase in hope and optimism
Can forgiveness be applied to a situation?
Yes
Is there a difference in the definition of forgiveness for religions versus the field of psychology?
Yes. Religious communities promote "forgive and then reconcile"; in the field of psychology reconciliation is not always part of the equation